I've never gone this long without PMO in 20 years

That’s awesome! Congratulations on your longest streak ever! What is the thing you most attribute your success to? Is there something you are doing that you weren’t doing before?

 

Great news keep it going my life improved myself been 21 days. Def happier and in a better mood

 

I’m right next to you at 44 days. I notice at work I don’t take crap from others. I’ve been really polarizing at work like if I ask for help and I don’t get it. I can “act” really pissed off when before I would feel bad for myself and say well I’ll just do it then. But now the person will help me because I get pissy like a boss. I’m not really upset but in my head I’m saying I got this person wrapped around my finger now...

I’m also noticing a lot LESS social anxiety. I can talk and actually LISTEN to strangers. I used to just wait for my turn to talk.. now I’m noticing I’m engaging conversation more and the best part is sometimes I don’t actually have a response.. and then the person engages more. It’s really cool to listen and then the person knows your really interested when you say little to nothing.. but asking for more through silence.

I’ve also noticed increased communication with my brothers.. which I severely lack in any emotional connections. It’s a work in progress.. they don’t know I’m on here yet.

Good luck to you man. Keep it up. Proud of you.

 

Thanks Steven for the support don't take any shit and kick ass

 

Great work man!! Keep going .....!

 

My social anxiety is slowly but surely waning as I hide less in fantasy and now I 'face the music' of whatever is, the here and now of whatever comes to be, and I can look at people in the eyes more and start connecting with people like I haven't in years. This is what happens when energy gets redirected without PM for 40 days. So I'm happy for your success and our new journey is worth all the challenge and discipline. I don't think of it as 'repressing past pleasures' anymore. It served its purpose but I was going nowhere fast. I always had a liberal attitude for erotica and self-pleasure as being a natural right of enjoyment, an exercise in the free world. But I'm also free to 'break out of the box' and enter new dimensions of life too.

 

Keep it up bro,