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I think I'm healed. But I still watch porn. Having a partner is key. Mental circuits

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Silverthorn, May 21, 2018.

  1. Silverthorn

    Silverthorn Fapstronaut

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    I still watch porn from time to time because I can't resist.

    I think it is a mental issue. If you are used to porn, you are not sure how to be with a woman. For the past few months, I have gotten better at sex with my girlfriend. Usually, she is on top. I am still limp a lot, but when it gets somewhat hard, she can make it hard and gets excited.

    I still can't ejaculate during sex though. I also struggle to get it up during at times. Usually, in the beginning, it is okay. It's how our brains work. My partner is satisfied, which makes me feel like a man. You need a partner to stick with you.

    When I did not watch porn, I felt the sex wasn't working either. I felt less like a man. Sometimes, I think it's okay to watch porn. But if you can't get sexually aroused by watching porn that you normally watch, it may mean you are watching too much.

    How to get your brain working during with a partner. Just holding hands. touching her. getting excited about the girl while she has clothes on. Kissing a lot. This stuff will help rework your brain with a real partner.

    I never had sex with women for the first 32 years of my life so porn was all i knew.

    I have had some success when a married woman has been hunting me. How I feel about that is another story altogether.

    Since I have had some success during sex, I felt the need to update NoFap. Many people that cure their PIED just choose not to come back and share their thoughts. I mean, why should they?

    I'm not sure if I'm fully healed or if porn was the only reason I have or had this problem. But I think having a supportive girlfriend is necessary.
     
  2. Italics the Bold

    Italics the Bold Fapstronaut

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    A job started is a job half finished. Good work getting going, but don't get cocky (so to speak)
     
  3. Mat Never Give up

    Mat Never Give up Fapstronaut

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    If you cannot ejaculate in her, I don't think you are healed buddy. I have the same problem so that why I am doing the reboot. Porn is not natural and its not real life, as long as you keep watching it, you are programming your own brain to be excited by thing that don't exist. Your gf exist, that should be your only porn. I am doing the reboot, I am at 76 days, I invite you to join me if you want to really heal yourselft. If I was addict for 15 years and I am at this point right now, you can do it too
     
  4. Listen to the thread above bro..
     
  5. Silverthorn

    Silverthorn Fapstronaut

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    how are you at 76 days. is there progress
     
  6. Mat Never Give up

    Mat Never Give up Fapstronaut

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    Yes a lot of progress. I don't know sexually because I don't have a partner right now but here what are my progress: Womans noticed me more and I am not in a rush to have a gf I want at all cost anymore, I am more focus on my own life instead, I dont see all womans I meet as possible sex encounter, I have more focus to do thing I should have done a lot time ago but all my energie was drained by fapping, doing more new things,I know myselft better and I know exactly what didnt work with my last womans I had: the fact that I cannot cum in her make them feel they are not enought, they left me after and I understand them.

    Dont let that happen with the girl you are with right now, you have to fix this, its not her job to do something about, its your job. She can support you of course, but you have to take actions, otherwise dont be suprise if one day she have enough of this
     

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