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I like to feel myself lonely

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by annamccarthy, May 18, 2018.

  1. annamccarthy

    annamccarthy New Fapstronaut

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    Society takes too much of my energy and I like to stay home alone
     
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  2. Headspace

    Headspace Fapstronaut

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    If you like to stay alone, where's the problem? Or do you just want to discuss it?
     
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  3. Phoenix234

    Phoenix234 Fapstronaut

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    Ok...and what’s is your issue if I may ask?
     
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  4. Conspera

    Conspera Fapstronaut

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    I feel this way sometimes, but there are other days where I really want to just get out there and meet new people, make witty remarks, and hit on cute girls. Sometimes I walk the talk and actually do this, but other times it never comes to fruition. I have noticed that the days where I am just in my room all day and haven't talked to anyone are the days where I tend to feel somewhat depressed and unproductive.
     
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  5. John Lee Smith

    John Lee Smith Fapstronaut

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    Same, loneliness is awesome most of the times.
    It is acute freedom.
    Sometimes it is curse, when you want to contact with someone.
    But I love loneliness too.
     
  6. He peeps,
    You need to be able to be lonely, what if you're going to the toilet in the middle in the night and you're at a unpopulated island in the middle of the ocean when you walk out of the toilet?
     
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  7. kilometrico

    kilometrico Fapstronaut

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    It is normal for you to feel exhausted with the society.
    well being to be alone is actually is to recharge your energy back.
    so be strong!
     
  8. Zephon

    Zephon Fapstronaut

    If you can live with that, keep at it.
    If it makes you depressed, change it.
     
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  9. TheGoldenEra

    TheGoldenEra Distinguished Fapstronaut

    It's just introversion. Simple.

    "Introverts (or those of us with introvertedtendencies) tend to recharge by spending time alone. They lose energy from being around people for long periods of time, particularly large crowds. Extroverts, on the other hand, gain energy from other people."
     
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  10. SanityOverVanity

    SanityOverVanity Fapstronaut

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    You’ve just described introversion. Introverts get their energy from being alone. Extroverts get energy from being with others.

    But it’s easy to confuse being alone to loneliness. The former is a choice, the latter usually feels more like an affliction.
     
  11. Hank Pym

    Hank Pym Fapstronaut

    I hate to be with others too...because they don't enjoy like me and I don't enjoy like them.
     

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