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Don't Reboot With the Intent of Having Sex Afterwards

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Proceed, May 24, 2018.

  1. Proceed

    Proceed Fapstronaut

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    Why set yourself up for failure? Why set a goal for yourself that you know will lead you right back to porn and dangerous sexual lust?

    While rebooting I implore you to set a loftier goal for yourself. If you have a partner, do it right. Go for 90 days without P, M or O. When the 90 days is up, don't rush to start having sex again. Just let it happen naturally when you and your partner are both ready.

    If you don't have a partner, go the full 90 days and don't stop there. Do something more with your life. Form good habits and let old ones become less of you. Get out and socialize. Educate yourself. Construct a vision to move towards.

    Don't use your "superpowers" just to have sex with a woman! I see this all the time on NoFap. Don't be that guy! You are just copying what the porn stars are doing, and that is wrong. Really clean yourself up and make the reboot count. Most importantly, do it for yourself.

    Thank you.
     
  2. Kaja

    Kaja New Fapstronaut

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    thank you. Will keep this always in mind.
     
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  3. goodfriendjps

    goodfriendjps Fapstronaut

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    Thanks! I needed to read this. I've been guilty of doing exactly what you're talking about. I have to do this for myself and for all of those that I may be able to influence.
     
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  4. Rogeron

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    The reason Im doing this Is because I wanna have sex with girls. Im still doing It for myself tho! I wanna be able to finally get some good sweet walls. I won't let that lead me back to porn, I've wasted enough time on that shit.
     
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  5. Proceed

    Proceed Fapstronaut

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    I can promise you that just having sex with girls will not satisfy you. The pleasure of sex is fleeting. It is so fleeting that the pleasure is gone when you are done having sex! But to each his own. I'm sorry Rogeron but I don't understand what you mean by good sweet walls?
    I see that you have a David Goggins photo. I am a fan of David Goggins and I try to maintain a "roger-that-mentality" myself.
     
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  6. Hank Pym

    Hank Pym Fapstronaut

    When I became teenager and hit puberty, oh my god how much lust I had to sex. Couldn't even control anything in my life after having an urge. But now, after a month of nofap, I understand sex/pmo is just a waste of life. Our ancestors use to have sex like only 2-15 times a year. I don't even wish to have lots of sex after marriage to live remaining 80 yrs healthy and happy. But I have to, to keep my wife happy. lol!
     
  7. SanSolo

    SanSolo Fapstronaut

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    Really? Where did you hear this? And how would anyone really know?
     
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  8. Proceed

    Proceed Fapstronaut

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    That is great. I am glad to hear that you have made the decision to keep your wife happy.
     
  9. Hank Pym

    Hank Pym Fapstronaut

    That was stone age man... We didn't had homes and enough food
     

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