Could I be bisexual?

Homosexuality/LGBT is the result of people messing up their brains with PMO.If I consume something that changes my brain and makes me want to behave like a fucking dog, you won't even ask if behaving like a dog is problematic or not, you'll just put me in a freaking insane asylum or some shit ! But PMO and homosexuality/LGBT are mainstream/considered "normal" that's why you're asking me if being gay is "problematic".Dude, we are men.Why would we behave like dogs or like we're attracted to other men ? The question is not "is it problematic or not ?", it's simply "why would we do that?".Especially if you consider that these behaviors are the symptoms of something that changed your brain.

 

First of all, personally, I think it's hilarious that you knew that you were gay at age 11 – that's ridiculous. That's almost as far-fectched and scary a thought as these millennial parents out there who go around preaching that their 5 year old daughter is transgender and identifies as a boy because she likes soccer. If you ask me, the question you should be asking is not whether you are bi but rather whether you are heterosexual.

I'm sorry if you feel like this is me going too far but I'm gonna go out on a limb...

Are your parents together? How is your life at home (if, in fact, you still live at home)? If not, how was it as you grew up?

I have a gay friend who has "always been gay." He had a rough childhood. His mom and dad didn't get along and ultimately his dad left the family (him, his brother, his mom). I feel like he is still somehow bitter and very much affected by that situation and anything else that may have transpired as a result. Talking openly with me at one point several months ago, he considered the possibility that all of that probably had a hand in molding him as the individual others see before their eyes today.

 

Don't be so exclusive. If we're to go this route, plenty of other things can very potentially cause it including social conditioning and BPA.

 

It only seems that way when you think of heterosexuality as being natural. It is natural in the sense that we were born into a society that says men should only be attracted to women. But that does not mean that it is inherently natural to the human species. There are accounts from all around the world where homosexual acts are part of coming of age rituals. These are not considered gay or unnatural. They are merely part of the social story within that space.

But if we use your logic about PMO creating homosexuality, what about children who display behaviours of the opposite sex? Little boys who are very clearly effeminate? Little girls who are tomboys. Whether these people grow into teenagers or adults who identify as gay does not even matter. The fact is that behaviours we associate with specific genders are only part of a social story. If the social story said that girls were meant to play in the mud and boys were meant to play make up, it would not mean that boys were any less masculine, because the idea of masculinity is a story decided by society, not my nature. Consider peacocks for a second; the males are the pretty ones. Does that mean that they are any less masculine? No. To the female, a pretty peacock is the most masculine.

I say all these things to bring to attention the idea that what men are supposed to do is decided by the society within which they grow up. And if we grew up in a society where men slept with men, it wouldn't even be something we felt weird about, unless we were the gays of that society.

 

Like I've said before: NEUROPLASTICITY !! Dude, that guy felt more masculine and more attracted to chicks when he stopped PMOing ! I, myself, felt more masculine, more attracted to chicks and NO LONGER feminine/aroused by fucking dicks when I stopped PMOing ! Porn plays with our hormones, brains and overall sexuality DRASTICALLY ! No wonder why he doesn't even know if he's gay or bisexual (while in truth, he's simply straight/normal) !

 

Guess what, dude? Heterosexuality IS natural – without it, you wouldn't exist.

 

@Woodland-Soul
I'm shocked at what some people think and posted regarding your post. I thought this site was to help and support. You are fine to explore your sexuality and most people are fluid in their desires and thoughts through out their life. No one way of the scale is right or wrong. Are you sexual aroused by different types of porn of course, but it doesn't make you one way or another. There is so much more to be hetro or homo than the sex. I'm glad to read some of your replies because it shows you're on the right track in your thinking, so stay strong.

If you're attracted to someone and their attracted to you and you want to explore with them then go for it. As long as it's legal and not forced by anyone.

 

This is ill-informed. You should do some research on this. There's a reason for the hundreds, if not thousands, of testimonials on NoFap and similar forums online in which you have guys who are adamantly straight complaining about having gotten into males or trans individuals. They were/are PMO-addicts. But like I said, it's pretty well established that other things can cause or contribute to this.

Do with this what you want. Explore your options or don't.

 

No, you don't know your own mind and body.If you knew, you wouldn't come here and ask "am I bisexual ?".I've got another shocking news for you: you're not the first human being on this planet who has grown and matured through life, you're a human psyche like everyone else and therefore you function like a human psyche ! I'm here to help you and in a RAW way, I don't sugar-coat shit just so that your ego hears what he wants to hear, you're my bro and I love you enough to tell you the TRUTH ! You created that topic, I gave you the informations needed.Period.

 

It exists because of lust/sex addiction/perversion/playing with our brains and hormones that NOWDAYS comes in the form of high-speed Internet porn.

 

What is happening here? Is this site against homosexuality and bisexuality or something? This all reads really weird and bigoted and about pushing your own insecurities onto other people. I thought this place was supposed to be about support Jesus.

 

Lol, dude. Wtf is going on? People were being gay way before porn even existed. It has nothing to do with neuroplasticity, or whatever you are talking about.

 

Why did you watch gay P first? Did you already know you wanted to see it? I only looked at straight P but would occassionally "slip" onto P with men or transexuals, then regret it and vow not to do it any more. In recent relapses I checked it out more and was a little more comfortable with it, especially the ones with transexual people. I wonder if it reflects some dormant homosexuality that I was just in constant denial of due to internalized homophobia. I also read some articles of the concept that homosexuality could be related to being abused as a child, like the other guy said, or just having a rough child hood. So there are lots of ideas about it. If you want 100% acceptance of homosexuality in all the replies you might be better off on something like a form for homosexual people. On here the idea that porn induces certain fantasies/fetishes floats around a lot. The idea is that if we masturbate (create pleasure sensation/reward) and associate that feeling with watching a fetish (gay or anything else) we would kinda reinforce that. Like watching pop corn and eating a movie.

 

Some responses in here are why I usually try harder than hell not to sign up to participate in online forums. Welcome to Social Engineering 101.

 

What? You think there’s some conspiracy to turn men gay or something? I’m not gay, but I have plenty of friends and loved ones who are - it isn’t something to be ashamed of or be cured of. Homosexuality, bisexuality, all occur in nature. Homosexuality has been around in humans since we first started recording history. Turning it into some sort of disease, or mental illness is messed up - why do you think so many people who struggle with their sexuality kill themselves? Because it’s constantly being reinforced by certain people that it’s sick and unnatural. If you really are afraid of being turned gay or gay people as a whole maybe you should look into that a little more - because flat out denying other people’s truth exists is damaging. They are not hurting you so I don’t really get it.