Misconceptions about Women Part One

I wanna say a lot of ppl here seem to consider women this external force or this important judge. And they might be that to a degree but they are human. They have just as many flaws as men do , sometimes more and they have the same feelings. These are popular misconceptions of women I see right here on Nofap everyday.

#1 - A no from a woman is not a real rejection.

Women are complex creatures that have a million things in their head. they have their own tastes, their parents tastes, racism, height complexes, class climbing aims. Or sometimes she is just not into u, there is a difference between I like other guys more compared to ew u disgust me never. A lot of u seem to just jump to that conclusion then u relapse to porn cuz u feel sorry for urself. In my experience even women who are flirting with me doesn't necessarily want to have sex or be in a relationship. Most women are figuring out themselves, life and men just like u are. Ive said this before and I learnt this lesson many times but somehow I underestimate it. I will put it as the next one. But often too women dont understand what u were willing to give em. They instinctively say no before they take a real look at who u might be. Stop judging yourself based on that.

#2 - Some women are trying to save u from themselves not friendzone u.

You underestimate the intuition or intelligence of some women. Many women are bossy , depressed, bipolar, bad at relationships. There are girls that friendzoned me and in retrospect they knew I wasnt the guy to handle their situation or to get em pregnant or to be stuck with em. Women are smarter than u think. U are there feeling bad about ur self esteem and she might be rejecting u because and this is true some women do not want a guy thats actually good for them because it forces them to live up to that standard. I have had best friends who ive chased openly and she told me her flaws and how she treats men over and over, I ignored it like i would be different. Then I saw her do it to my friend and it was like she cared about me enough to warn me and keep me away from her pathology. While the next guy is just fun for her.

#3 - Women do want u to ask em out, but they want it to be the right person at the right time.

If you ask certain women out at the wrong time they will say no regardless of how great u are or if they even like u. Especially when it comes to conscientious women. Do not ask a hardworking woman out while she is working. Do not asking a extroverted girl out while she is busy being social etc. The point is do not interupt someone's active personality trait with ur own needs then expect it to go well. This goes a lil deep but u can say everyone has subpersonalities. thats why often ur crush seems hot and cold to u btw. U figure out when is the best time and u try then. And make sure ur a fine specimen. Do not bet ur confidence on her whim. Sometimes shes just not interested but 10 other girls will be. But ur too busy being emo about one.

#4 - Women are not great always judges of a man's worth.

By the way women outsource this. This in some JBP lectures. Women often dont use their own brain to sort out how good u are for them. they outsource it to the male hierarchies. Which means if ur not tall and handsome ... u better be something. Be smart, motivated, be the captain of a gaming team, start a business, show that ur not useless and u can climb a few hierarchies. That ur potentially a reliable mate. Remember when a woman is saying yes to u , she isnt saying yes to how nice or how cute u are, at least not entirely yet. She is saying yes to potential. the potential of what u could be and what u can be to her.
Women arent wrong for doing this cuz they have to bare the children so they have to think ahead. Sometimes u might be great and she wont take u cuz she plans on going to a diff country. u never know.
The main point is pay attention to ur male hierarchies and also how visible they are to women. Its not that women just like athletes , most of em dont know sports. its that they can easily see that a guy is on top his hierarchy.

#5 - Women know what they want and its not just alpha males.

Yes most women do certain traits that come off certain guys. They like it though, it doesnt mean they want to marry it, it doesnt mean they have good luck with it, it doesnt mean they feel safe around it. U can take on some positive male traits without changing urself. Many of the women i know and exes actually want men that are sensitive. But u cant use that as an excuse to be sensitive, broke, unfit, bad personality etc.

 

Seems like ur post is mostly about balance and a rick and morty reference. I can get behind that.

 

Sorry I reworded that. It is just to say not to rely heavily on the opinion of a random girl u decided to ask out or to harshly judge ur progress because she didnt say yes. Like you said sometimes there is nothing u can do about it and she has her own thoughts.