Could I be bisexual?

Because many transgender individuals who have mutilated their bodies have came to regret it. It's statistical. Look it up.

It's not because of the opinions of people like me, that's for damn sure. I'm trying to help people explore options and do research and learn. The guy came in here with what seemed to be a genuine curiosity and I'm giving my take on what I think. What the hell is the problem?

 

My brother, I am not saying that heterosexuality isn't normal. I am saying that heterosexuality as a logical opposite to homosexuality isn't normal. Of course reproduction can only happen between a man and a woman. This is how nature intended it to be. But sexual relations can happen between anything that can play the role. Literally. People have used watermelons because they couldn't find a willing vagina or anus. Do we call them fructosexual? C'mon dude. Break free from ideas that keep your mind locked into a narrative of prejudice. Sex is sex. Love is love. Whether man, whether woman, whether trans, it doesn't matter.

 

Sorry, to read that. But that seems to be rather common and natural in the start of even the most enthusiastic members here. Make sure to identify the potential triggers each time, when it happens. So you are prepared better against them next time. What is important: as more you start to chase, binge and drain yourself during any relapse, as worse becomes the hangover-effect in most cases. If you have masturbated just once and without any porn, thats a "reset" of the counter only, not a relapse yet.

And by the way, you can always put members on "ignore", if you feel their texts rather annoy and irritate than support your fight.

 

There have been many borderline comments made in this thread with hostile language. Please be respectful to one another. There's no rule that says everyone must agree but there's no need to resort to name calling and insults to get your point across.

 

Well I think having a child and sexual orientation are two different things. If my sexual orientation was homosexual but I started to feel that I was really travelling in a positive direction, in a loving relationship with or even without a man, and I had security and enjoyment I may start to feel I want to replicate. Add another human being because you felt that way. It's very difficult to say that there is a direct line between NoFap and heterosexuality. And what makes people want to have children. Everyone is unique, we feel different ways all the time so it's really hard to tell at times. I can fully understand a gay man wanted to have sex with a woman for a child. Totally makes sense. Or even just to try it. Everyone is entitled to feel completely 100% okay about everything including there sexuality.

 

Plus there are so many more options and there is much greater acceptance of sexuality. It's fantastic. I think the NoFap is a major part in it. And what started out as a "challenge" etc has now become so much more. It's great we are finding ways to express ourselves, less worry more happiness. It's genuinely refreshing. No one should feel bad.

 

So, you're using NoFap as an excuse to push your anti-LGBT viewpoints. Cute. You don't have to personally approve of the LGBT community, but to use a forum that consists of members who are in a very vulnerable state to spread your beliefs has to be one of the most fucked up things I've heard..

 

Bullshit.I’m not a anti-LGBT activist or whatever.What’s going on is that you’re just pissed at me ‘cause I’ve said that PMO and LGBT are related.I’m not using that forum to SPECIFICALLY talk about LGBT but HERE that’s the subject and I’m spitting the truth.End of the story.

 

Nope, you and a few other members are using these posts as an outlet to spread your negative viewpoints in what should be a supportive, tolerant community. Keep denying it, but it's the truth. End of story.

 

How many times have you seen me posting about LGTB or anything related ? You’re just neurotic, go take a cold shower or something.

 

So let me get this straight. You claim that Woodland-Soul having had intense feelings for men for a decade is not enough to say he is gay, but that a small amount of attraction to women proves he is straight. What kind of logic is that? You claim that people hear what they want to hear, but you’re jumping at every chance to convince yourself gay people don’t really exist. I have to ask, do you actually believe what you’re saying, or do you just not want to live in a world with gay people in it?

 

No pun intented ?

 

I would say it’s more self affirming than anything else. He wants to think that gay people don’t exist, so he’s looking any sort of evidence, no matter how small, to confirm that. He can’t even give a reason for the way he feels other than “I think it’s not normal.”