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Help in becoming more social

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Cuddywater, Jun 4, 2018.

  1. Jun 4, 2018 #1
    Cuddywater

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    I have come to realise after nofap that as a person i am more outgoing than I have known myself to be. This was a pleasant realisation given for the longest time I didn't even know what made me happy. Having said that years of porn addiction have stripped me of my social confidence and ability to make friends or find partners. Can someone help me material I can read up on the internet to become better as a social being? This includes:
    1. How to understand what you're wearing or have decided to wear and what it means to other people.
    2. how to develop better friendships with guys. Given I have spent most of my time alone until now, suggestions on where I can meet new people in order to make friends is also welcome.
    3. How to meet women, know how to flirt, how to close, etc.

    I believe that if i sit at home and do nothing, my present state shall not change. Only if i put in the effort to change will my life change and therefore I plan to treat meeting new people especially women as a skill that i can learn and get better at.
     
    Cuddywater, Jun 4, 2018
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  2. Jun 6, 2018 #2
    Cuddywater

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    lmao i get ur point
     
    Cuddywater, Jun 6, 2018
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  3. Jun 6, 2018 #3
    TheNewPat

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    Go to the health + wellbeing section of your library and look.. theres so many good books. I recall seeing a few to do with "make friends" etc. The other day.

    The internet is full of snippets of information that the developers have usually gathered from books or studies.Get the full story from a book.

    Self actualized youtube channel helps me too. Just scroll through vids and see if any of them relate.
     
    TheNewPat, Jun 6, 2018
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  4. Jun 6, 2018 #4
    TheTruthIsHidden

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    If you are willing to change. You need to eat a healthy balanced diet with plenty of vegtavles and potatoes and shit like that you also need to buy a good probiotics with 10 billion CFU. Also talk a good Quality b-12. You have to heal your gut and you mood will change and you will have zero anxiety and you will be Confident in yourself. The body is so crazy that your GUT controls your mental well-being. Heal your gut and you mental health will be healed
     
    TheTruthIsHidden, Jun 6, 2018
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  5. Jun 7, 2018 #5
    Adam smithsonian30

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    well done keep up the good work
     
    Adam smithsonian30, Jun 7, 2018
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  6. Jun 7, 2018 #6
    Silver_lining

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    I suggest you this book "No more Mr nice guy" by Robert Clover and Taoofbadass by Joshua pellicer.
     
    Silver_lining, Jun 7, 2018
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