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Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Jun 12, 2018.

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  1. Do the exercise at your own pace.
     
  2. If u dont understand something, ask me. Let's get you healed.
     
  3. I get girls just approach them thats my advice if i die he might have already i dont know if or when i will
     
  4. tIoD

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    You don't need anyone to accept or love you to fulfill your life. At least do drugs, LSD or smth.
     
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  5. Hey friend,
    Try the approach I described where you close your eyes.
     
  6. Also, I beliwve that you can approach girls and make them have a good time.
     
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  7. Try to have a meal with your parents ever once in a while, @ReWirinTheBrain.

    I know it's tough because I can relatr. My father destroyed my life and I can't the same guy I once were.

    I once tried something my muslim friend said. He said if you have a meal with ur parents or one of them on occasions, your outlook would change. They also told me each time I feel down, I try to do little good tgings for them or visit them on occadions.
     
  8. Please don't laugh at me, but I usually imagine nyself talking to a beautiful girl who listens to me and help me figure out how to have some control ovrr my mind
     
  9. Don't know if you'll be back again to read this. I just want you to know that I was contemplating suicide at my bottom as well and today I am living a grateful life. It is possible to heal. Porn _is_ lying to you. It has hurt you, you just aren't in a place where you can see that now. I know "real" people may have hurt you as well, they sure hurt me too. But there are real people who will love you as well and porn will never do that.

    If you are suicidal, make the call

    1-800-273-8255

    Give yourself one more shot. You're worth it. You deserve it. You deserve to be loved by _you_.

    Peace to you,
    -Quinn
     
  10. I just want to add, a close personal friend committed suicide 2 years ago. He left behind a wife and 3 girls as well as many of us friends. He really thought no one loved him. He was super wrong. The hole that was left behind can never be filled.

    -Quinn
     
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  11. moonesque

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    Making that decision you are trying to run away from yourself and all the things you’ve stated. You do not wish to end it all however, but to change your life, when you tap into the fountain of yourself, nothing else matters and you can change anything in your life. You can never truly run away though, even in death. Even alone, your self loves you always.

    It must hurt so severly to feel the way you do, but you don’t wish for extinction, but change instead. Suffering shows we are far from ourselves, but it is a sign to make that change. Do anything you can, but hold on, it will be the right choice for yourself.
     
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  12. @moonesque, well said. Our suffering can be our teacher.
     
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  13. I guess happy harry is not replying, I have seen this before on the board they come on here rant and then never come back sounds as if someone needs some serious meds .
     
  14. I won't call it "ranting." He wants a fast way to live happily. I was in his shoes many years ago. He still has the chance to enjoy his 20s. Please Harry come back.
     
  15. Insearchforserenity

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    Nothing worth having comes easy in life, and the things that come easy we will never understand the value of. We all have our demons, in fact everyone on this site has their demons, it why we are all here. Death is easy, its also certain, you'll have it one day anyway so there's no rush. Give yourself a chance.

    Look, if you wanted to run 100 miles, getting up one day and running isn't going to work is it? You'll want to give up before the 1st mile because you were not ready, or trained for that. You'll tell yourself "you're a failure", "this is too hard" when the only problem was you were not ready, you did not train for it.

    What I'm saying is, life takes longer for others to fall in place but it just doesn't fall into place, and that's what a lot of us here wish. A fulfilling life takes work, turn your pain into inspiration for someone else one day. Don't give up, work hard. A girlfriend, a nice job, it won't fall into your lap my friend (I tell myself this daily, it's not going to just fall into my lap either), it takes work!

    You probably feel tired, your angry and your tired and you don't have the energy to even try anymore. Well, sleeping forever isn't going to give you even the tiniest chance at getting one of these things in life, not even the slightest. When you go, it all goes for you. But staying alive, lifting your foot a mm off the ground, and then one step, and then one foot infront of the other, one day you'll muster it up in you to work you hardest and you'll find your reason to be alive.

    Nothing worth having is ever easy, it just isn't.
     
  16. Congratulations! What a brilliant deduction! I applaud your decision to blame others for all the existent problems in your life.

    It is your parents' fault for bringing you in this world!
    Your teachers' fault for giving you the kind of education they did!
    Society's fault for not providing you with trustworthy friends!
    Womens' fault for not producing a worthy girlfriend for you!

    And the list goes on... It fucking goes on...

    I wanted to be nice and gentle on you... But fuck political correctness...

    I don't care what others might think of my answer... I am going to spell the bare truth out for you... I don't know you... And I don't owe you... Heck! I don't even expect you to read this... Let alone understand it...

    You my friend are a fucking PUSSY!
    How many times have you heard that life ain't all sunshine and roses... Even the fucking roses have thorns that can prick you... I haven't bothered checking out your age... But it seems to me that whatever years you have spent on this planet have been wasted largely by you...

    What steps have you taken to improve your life, you my friend couldn't even get hold of your dick long enough to defeat porn... And yet here you are expecting to be endowed with true friendship, true love, happiness and bliss...

    My friend... Or I should say Mr. Stranger... These fine things in life are earned and not granted to just any Tom, Dick or Harry!!!

    Put your hands between your legs... You feel something?

    Huh???

    You feel something man???

    Those are your balls... You are a man... Use those fucking balls to grow some balls... You know what that means?

    Alright I will be nice and tell you about their meaning...

    It means you are born to fuck the world... What does that mean... It means you are out there to create something... Do something great... Make the world conceive and give birth to something beautiful... Be a sportsperson, be any professional or businessman... But do something that enriches the world...

    Those balls are meant for greatness... Not to be tugged upon and used by whining bitches who blame everything for their failures...

    You are right about one thing... That about not being against porn... Hell yeah! Porn ain't a problem my man... It is the lusty bitch inside you that is addicted to taking the easy way out... You know how hard sex in real life is... You gotta work your ass off to get a good girl, you need hard work to maintain a relationship, you need to sacrifice from time to time to make it going smoothly... And that's what real man with real balls do...

    They fight! They conquer! They fall! They rise up again!

    You my friend have those balls... Use them! USE THEM FOR YOUR OWN SAKE! Go find out a new job! Move into a new town! Start working on self improvement... Join some classes, join an internship, start a business... Do fucking something...

    The talk you made above makes absolutely no sense... Even bitches don't talk like that... Let alone men!

    You can't expect anything from others unless you are trying your best... And if you ain't trying your best... You can't complain...

    And let me tell you something... The message above implies that you haven't tried hard enough... And you know it...

    So what!
    You can give up PMO... It just needs willpower... The steps told by members don't work... Unless you do...
    You can get a new job or learn a new skill...
    And friends are rare... People are selfish... You attract what you fucking are... You want faithful friends,then start being faithful to others... And before you do that you need to be faithful to your own self...

    You want true love... How can you expect it... When you can't even fucking take care of your own self...

    See the point of this whole post of mine is this...

    YOU DON'T MATTER... IT'S WHAT YOU DO THAT MATTERS...

    AGAIN... If I have been rude... I have been rude... I am not gonna apologize... What made me respond is the fact that you accused entire NoFap community of not caring... We do fucking care... I wouldn't be responding if I didn't... But after all is said and done... You need to be a man and deal with it... Whatever life hands you ain't gonna be easy... Not today... Not tomorrow... It's you who needs to toughen the fuck up...

    Grow some balls of motherfucking steel and the World will respect you... Or you can stay being a PUSSY...

    Whatever...
    I am out!!!
     
  17. GigglingTrout

    GigglingTrout Fapstronaut

    I just hope he didn't go through with it...
     
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  18. You are not alone in this. There are ways to treat depression. Please contact people that can help you. Being depressed often makes it feel like you don’t have any more options. But that is a lie. That is just the depression talking. These feeling you have won’t last forever. We are in this with you, and we will all be cheering for you to get through this!
    I know the idea of calling a helpline might terrify you, but in times of crisis, we often need someone their to put our lives in perspective. So please contact someone who can help and don’t hang up on them. TheInternational Association for SuicidePrevention maintains a list of suicideprevention hotlines for countries all over the world. Also, if you don’t feel up toactually talking to someone on the phone, unsuicide maintains a list of online Instant Messaging and chat suicideprevention resources.
     
  19. TheodoreCleaver

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    The person that posted this has more issues than porn. I’m sure it’s a long and distinguished list with his thread as a cry for help.

    Mental illness is a serious problem these days. You never know what someone has been through to get them to that point. I hope he got the help he needs or is still out there lurking.
     
  20. Porn only gave you static pleasure. It was never your friend, Harry. Porn never guided you, inspired you, or helped unfold your potential. Your Great Escape merely fueled the addiction until in your hopeless state of mind, you're contemplating suicide. I hope that family members or authorities can stop you. It's better for you to delete your NoFap account and continue PMO for years! Perhaps then a situation will arise that will help you start the climb upward. Suicide? C'mon, Harry! There's enough suffering in the world. Must your family grieve like that after your passing?
     
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