The Greatest Benefit of All

Welcome Brothers,

There is great and many talk of all the positive benefits experienced by all of us. These benefits are mostly focused directly on NoFap like PIED improvement, more Dopamine etc, but there is one wonderful benefit I see a bit too rarely, and it is one I have only experienced after having relapsed and fallen so many times, and that is Clarity of mind through the happiness of life.

In my long journey of NoFap of the past months, I didn't really see that many benefits, mostly because I already enjoyed my life. I was fit, healthy, had many great experiences, loved my hobbies, my study and my friends. The only thing I could have improved on was NoFap....... so I thought!

The first streaks, and ultimately, my best streak gave me some benefits like being cured of PIED, feeling more energetic and alive and so on, but I was not that much different to where I was before.

But.......... a strange benefit I have been having for the last month or two is the feeling of fulfillment. I feel free of the burden of PMO. I feel free of addiction and external control. I feel like I control my emotions, my behavior and life. I have become a truly different person since last streak and I feel like life is perfect as it is. I am not anxious anymore. I am not insecure about myself anymore. I feel like I am just perfect the way I am. Because I have conquered my greatest demon: PMO. I have done what millions of other men won't EVEN CONSIDER! I have broken free from a disease that was slowly eating from my soul. Bu now I am free of this hateful feeling and can sit back and think of what my goals of tomorrow are.

Life is amazing. NoFap is amazing, and you are amazing. Let NoFap be the spark that ignites the fire of life. NoFap is setting us free. Whenever you feel down, depressed or like PMO'ing, remember that all of us NoFappers are the ones who are winning in life. We choose to defeat our inner demons, and although it seems difficult at times, the reward of making it through will give you the feeling I've had last month. This feeling was worth all the pain of last year of struggling.

 

It's almost like fate was giving you a hint to stop your destructive behavior . Nah i'm kidding, i don't believe in that stuff haha.
But i am glad you found out about NoFap and this community. Like my professor says; 'the greatest of bonds are created through hardship'. We are literally experiencing that same form of the bonding of brothers as men in the military do haha.

 

I am happy to hear that! Embrace that feeling and let that be the motivator to never indulge in PMO egain.

 

I'm sorry brother, but your comment left me confused. Can I maybe help you with something? If you have trouble with finding a right mindset to conquer NoFap, I have some good tools that helped me calm my mind and not think about PMO at all during the day