Why girls run away from you!

Book recommendations:

Models by Mark Manson
The Way of Superior Man by David Deida

 

if u were to write 100 reason , why u r doing nofap . getting girl might be 90th reason for me.

 

Do whatever you need to do to be happy with yourself and with your life. But most importantly, just be yourself. If you are shy, be shy. If you are nice, be nice. If you've found a girl that sees you for who you are deep down, underneath the shyness or lack of confidence, you've found the right one.

 

unfortunately 80percent males learns about females from media and media really type cast woman to limited things. this pattern needs to break down.

 

I think it depends on what you're looking for. If you're looking for girls to casually date and/or have sex with, I'm not denying that superficial factors like confidence and taking care of your physical appearance will play a big part in getting their attention. But if you're looking for a long-term girlfriend, she couldn't care less about who you are or trying to be on the surface. If you are happy with who you are, don't worry about what media/self-help books/your player-friend is telling you what you should do to get a girl's attention. The girl that is right for you is the girl that loves you for who you really are.

 

(what you r looking for) i donot understand it. we boys cannot plan for everything small thing for relationship. i know girls instict intution r right. but always-be-ready-for-relationship maitaining this attitude is itself difficult.

 

great advice. I hope to be both surface attractive and also and more importantly on the inside appealing and caring