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Wet dreams w/o actual ejaculation?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by LilD, Jun 22, 2018.

  1. LilD

    LilD Fapstronaut

    I've had an erotic dream today (and one 2 days ago) in which I've had an orgasm, but when I woke up I was surprised because I haven't actually ejaculated. It felt 100% realistic inside the dream, I even felt the wetness.

    Previously all my wet dreams were literally wet, so this makes me really curious.
    1. Are those orgasms even real? How is it possible for a male to feel an orgasm without ejaculating?
    2. How those affect my recovery?
     
  2. r8js

    r8js Fapstronaut

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    i think for guy they experience a erection lot more time then try to entertain it . but erection should not entertained. but at teen age it happens so oftely males find it hard to ignore . now mistake is entertaining it again with fantasies . but if u donot entertain it u will experience wet dreams thats another adveture .
     
  3. r8js

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    i think wet dreams actual leakage to fair positive reasons is fair for man than being addicted to bad habbit . ex. once i was with girl we saw music video she told me music was good but video was too sexual . as soon as i heard those words i started precum . she was sitting so close to me. with 1hour i felt lots of this and i emptied fully. i enjoyed it as much as actual sex. that day i felt just sex is definitely enjoyable but being with girl can be also enjoyable.
     
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  4. r8js

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    2nd ex i was with another girl. we used to have lunch together. girl used to eat my tiffin . all coworker misunderstood she is my gf. those two months were so magical every coworker used to ask about us to each other. it was too exciting some time for me to say things on behalf of her. it caused precum ejaculation to me few times. it was enjoyable b/c reason was real not based on fake fantacies. i m still not able to fully understand does really eat other man tiffin? it was exciting for me to see girl eating my food, unknowingly she herself asking me to share my things with her, watching girl adjusting herself to my presence. it was too unexpected how much she was willingfully sharing things . it made me ejaculacute few times. it was as enjoyable as sex.
     
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  5. r8js

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    unknowinly i m thinking about her. it is better than fantacizing to unreal fake things pmo things . i find pattern in that ejaculating to unexpected real life experiences is far more better than being addicted. whenver i find myself getting excited or ejaculate to i-have-not-experieced-real-things like fantacies , i find myself addicted. i think my pattern is more based on fantasy. i must get more and more real experience and erase fantasy experience. if i get more real life experience and i share it with my similar age people, i m sure i will get appreciation happy moment . because i mostlly movie addict whatever i know about females ,are from movie. in the end movies are fake. to get small real life experiences like this helps a lot to get solid concrete sucess in relationship and life.
     
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  6. r8js

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    thank you very much for letting me explain myself this has been off topic .
     
  7. Trucker

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    I don't think I've had a wet dream without ejaculating? In fact I've had an ejaculation without even orgasming
     
  8. SanSolo

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    As for the first question, when this happened to me the orgasm certainly felt real, complete with a sense of relief and satisfaction after. As for how it is possible, who knows? Maybe the same way you can feel pain in a dream but not actually be injured. Or feel like you are peeing buckets in a dream but not actually pis the bed. The dreaming mind can be the ultimate in virtual reality.

    As for recovery, I wouldn't think it makes any difference. How you discipline your behavior with your conscious mind matters magnitudes more in your recovery than any dream, wet or otherwise.
     
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  9. LilD

    LilD Fapstronaut

    Interesting. I've never felt pain in my dreams. Not even itching. Urinating is a common theme, but my dreams, in this case, are about finding a place to pee rather than actually peeing, so I think my sensations in dreams are generally consistent with what my actual body feels like.
     
  10. Drake24

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    I can't have wet dream i am 21, addicted to pmo for 8 years. Daily M about 2 times.
    I only had 1 wet dream when i was at 54 days streak few years latter.
    Now i am reforming my self. I am at 53rd day and still no wet dream.
    Urges are extremely killing me inside but no wet dream.
    Help me PLEASE
     

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