Gave up porn, but without the need for computer started masturbating outside the house

I had some similiar urges and acted on them and I think the most helpful advice I can give is that you should look ahead and visualize what your masturbation in public will lead to.

You won't stop by just undressing where noone will see you but at some point you will look for a new high, making other people "catch" you masturbating, doing it more and more in even riskier situations. At some point you will lose all shame.

The fact that you are looking for more exciting ways to masturbate shows me this is part of your addiction and you should not only quit porn but also masturbation for some weeks completely to reset.

 

Glad to hear that you made it through all these urges! For me it already gets alot better after a few days so don't let your brain tell you that it will take forever to get through the urges. Of course, urges will still come in the most unexpected moments, but these are usually just for a few minutes... once you are through that, it's all good.

 

Sounds like you may have stopped this cycle. I was like you and kept going further for that rush. I worked at an office for a short while and started tapping while driving home on the highway. At first I covered up every time I passed acar. Then I started scoping out the driver and if it was a lady, I would slowly pass, ease off the gas and let them pass me again, this time me not being covered up. My theory was that if they saw me, I would just fall back behind them and take the next turn off. Here in Alberta we do not have licence plates on the front of our vehicles so as long as I could get behind them I figured I was safe.

Then I set up my cell phone camera and would film at an angle that would catch me flapping and the driver's face.

Looking for that adrenaline.

In a nutshell I have on film two different women who clearly saw what I was doing. It became my new lowest common denominator.

Then one day there was a story on the local paper where a lady reported a guy flapping in his car early in the morning along.the same stretch of highway. They described his vehicle and had a sketch of the guy. It wasnt me, but it gave me a slap across my head to stop that stupid behavior.

 

Dude, I know how that craving for adrenaline can make me crazy for anything lol. You were lucky that you didnt get caught. Masturbating in public is one risky behaviour, which I did too. It makes me feel so stupid after making my brain rewire of the risky things that I have done.

 

Well, To be honest I know how stupid and fucked up in life I used to feel If I masturbated riskily. I dont know If I should say this but I have masturbated looking at women out of my window for hours ( I know that sucks!) and in Cyber Cafes and at Friend's house lol. But Dude, believe me, Just stop that masturbation thing for sometime and you would be fine af. This is one hell of a risk we take just to satisfy our primal dopamine instincts. Only after being sober for a while I realized it and cant help but laugh at myself lol ( although I must not laugh this is something serious). I remember after each risky fapping I was like dude, you must get a life! what the hell are you doing? But yeah I feel happy to have been out of this shit and I aint ever going back. Good Luck and stay strong!!