1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

What will decrease reboot-effect?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by JensDK42, Dec 7, 2014.

  1. JensDK42

    JensDK42 Guest

    So currently, I'm 11 days clean, and it has been mostly positive, but at the moment, it's getting a little bad.
    I started wondering; is there anything other than P, M and O, I should abstain from?
    I'm a hopeless romantic, and thus I like disney-films, love-stories etc.
    I keep 2 fanmade pictures from a story I like, but I wonder if they keep me from rebooting?
    They are not at all erotic, rather cute/romantic.
    Do I have to get rid of stuff like this and gaming to reboot?
     
  2. Ghost.

    Ghost. Fapstronaut

    68
    4
    8
    You have to not masturbate to porn. It's really that simple.

    Porn is sexual material that is explicitly portrayed for the primary purpose of sexual arousal
     
  3. Stop fantasising.
    I suppose many of us were fantasising about sex and other woman, but in your case this stories can be trigger to some paths in your brain. I don't say you must stop watching all romantic stories or read them. If your streaks will end on the same point (like me some days ago - I've been always going to 30/40 days and reset), you will know you must change something.

    Peace bro.
     
  4. My advice is better not to ask for "what can I abstain from today?" but better "what can I do today?"

    It always helps me to keep being a BALANCED person. Roughly said, there are three main keys for being balanced:

    1) Connect to people (family, friends, work mates, customers, clients, ...)
    2) Work on productive things, anything which is useful productive and fulfilling for you
    3) Have a healthy boidy and mind - sports, good food, enough sleep.

    Are you single? Do you want a relationship? Then go out and do something for it.
    Are you in a relationship? Then do something with your partner.

    BTW, I'm again on day 13 of "freedom mode" (aka hard mode), so it's pretty much similar to you. Please note that I'm living in a relationshp, but actually, it is not always so pleasant as many people might think. I sometimes feel more lonely "together" then being "alone" ;-) In fact, this is my real challenge.
     
  5. Believe me, such commands are useless.

    The cause is that you can not "stop" your life energy, you can only USE it.

    Therefore, it doesn't help to "stop" unwanted things.

    You need to do "wanted" things.

    If you only "stop", and don't change anything, then one day, the retained energy will break through and will flood you. You will become depressive or maniac or will have a nervous breakdown or you will run amok.

    Trust me, I'm a man of 42 years and it took me many years to find the proper way out of PMO. It only works if you are a balanced being. There are three major keys to be in balance, and they all need to be in check. I posted them in my last posting here.
     

Share This Page