Is porn and kink all bad?

Well I am open to true input. Not to generalized unfounded principles and morales. I am after the truth in things not opinions.

I also believe that just like for example power fitness training developed over the last twenty. Years. I saw a documentary when I stared mysekf now. Now all is clearly filtered what’s bad but was practiced then and the machines so refined that the use is good. I think porn is same. In future it’s refined and there is good choice of quality. I don’t know history. Too young. But maybe I look for documentary of that development too. Maybe it wasn’t as it’s not or as it will be in ten years. Maybe by that time they found just clearly that a certain a,out of arousal and stimulation is good and a certain is bad. Guys have in general these and these desires. That’s just make nature and women have this and this. That’s women nature. Moral gets filtered and replaces by clarity and proper use. And so on. I am a very visionary person.

 

As much as I'd like to justify watching it here and there I can't. Sexual acts aren't purely physical and are probably more spiritual than physical. @Dhalia As someone who seems to believe in the metaphysical, I'd think you would see the danger in spiritually aligning yourself with a misguided person who is having sex for money and engaging in a destructive lifestyle. You may experience some type of positive physical effect but i think the negative spiritual consequences outweigh the positives by so far that you can't really justify it.

 

Thank you not sure what that means. I have no separation between the spiritual and the sex or body or so

 

Every bloody problem is in a person's head, that's completely obvious and not what I'm talking about, read my stuff again... It's not about "my morals", have you honestly looked into the actual studies and research into porn? There is literally nothing good, I don't understand what you're attempting to get at.

 

Honestly, no offense, but even if you were right and porn is good or okay, you're not likely to find many supporters on a website whose only purpose is recovery from porn.

 

Even though in moderation it's fine unlike porn, that's like going to an alcohol recovery meeting and telling everyone booze isn't the problem. lol

 

Yeah, exacrly

 

Several of us here have mentioned truth and science, and you don't seem to care. I don't think anybody here has merely thrown out random opinions.

 

Yeah and it's incredibly easy to find with a quick search how terrible for your brain it is, and those are actual studies! Honestly sounds like she's trying to rationalise porn like addicts do in my opinion, because I really don't know what else that stuff is supposed to mean.

 

Oh this is really so way off! Please read what I write and understand way better wgat I say. Try to get out of your rusty views and open up so you can see where your problem really lies. You are stuck in condemning the porn. That’s negativity. As long as you seek an external cause you don’t get the point. The point is in your head.
I wrote upset because I am delivering quite truthful important points. And as always the rusty opinions in heads take aeons to melt for the truth.

 

I need to withdraw for a while. I need to find people that understand what I actually say. It’s seriously frustrating to get such rigid statements poured over true points you open and honestly share. Good night.

 

Okay so using your logic against our supposed "rusty views", are you telling me you believe and justify porn being okay for consumption and there's a "normal" amount? Because there's nothing else you could be implying.

The funny thing about everything you said is it's nothing more than your opinions and morals. How is what you say the truth and yet we so happen to be wrong?

 

All we're doing is sharing actual facts as addicts and being open as well so I fail to see your problem.

 

Look, i don't think anyone here means to offend you. You are more than entitled to have your own opinion, but so are we. I truly get what you are trying to say (i even went back and reread your posts to make sure), i just don't agree. Saying that we are the problem and not porn is partially true, obviously if we got nothing out of porn it would have no hold over us, but it is designed to get a hold on us. Its like telling a drug addict that the problem is only in his head so if he controls it he can do drugs in moderation...its not going to happen. Some people may be able to watch porn in a healthy (ish) way, but us addicts will never be able to watch it without picking up old habits and even for non addicts it's a slippery slope. The point is could it be okay? i guess so, but it could easily lead to addiction and it instills unhealthy fantasies and expectations even in the non addicted brain that in my opinion are not healthy. Anyway, that's my thought on the matter. I hope you don't take offense or feel too frustrated, everyone is just stating their own opinions and sometimes these debates get a little bit heated. Have a good night.