Is porn and kink all bad?

Sarah. I don’t think really she is the one to be laughed at. She has to me for example very valid very good points! Quite so,e of them are what I share or state too.
You refer to science. I did in my posts too and explained it. You need to learn to instead project your own negativity as the evil porn and turn your eyes inside yourself and look for your own problems and what the true causes are. I think this is basically also what she states. Quite well put I would say. And yes if one continues to project the own negativity into other things instead of getting rid of it yes it’s hindering the healing.

 

How hilarious you funny guy. Advise to you. Look deeper closer and open your mind that something can get in and help you doing way better! Maybe then eben you are able to recognize true points instead of blindly ridiculing them on zero base and with no point!

 

Yes same as with alcohol. The comparison still fits as most people use it. That’s a fact. Just as much as your boss in your company. Your father your brother your uncles and your priest in church Obama and bill gates and other high respected people highly most likely will react with arousal when put on a sex polygraph and presented a girl getting tied up. It’s a scientific fact. 95% do react.

But yes they do go back to porn as they do to alcohol. People like it. And if you don’t have a other condition you won’t have a problem. If you have a condition you become a addict. If it’s porn or alc. same thing. Getting off alcohol is just as hard.

 

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i know how bad it can work. I mysekf got into edging which is even way worse than just porn watching and masturbation as I could hold myself in this extremely pleasurable state for a very long time. I agree that it’s very difficult to get off. I am a victim mysekf.

But I also worked my way out or am abou. I had some very important realizations about it which I strongly believe is the key to realize ones own points deeply and clearly so the cause for the addiction gets removed and then the addiction can be erased much much better. Thiscis 100% true for me. The judgement actuslly I had mysekf and thinking its bad mysekf ahs even thinking I have to live monk mode and all these things root in deep moral patterns planted in one through personal history society collective view (like found here too and the one that I fight age that brings these strong reactions) through church religions parents... This fundamentally wrong believe in my eyes hasto be corrected as one root point to heal oneself. There has to be a total yes to the sex force. Otherwise you go against life itsself. That does not mean you should go and watch porn. This is not how you solve the addiction. But the rejection and condemnation and the negativity put on it is deeply wrong and hindering the liberation. On this sense!!!! I agree porn addiction is way worse then drugs as the moral impact cuts way deep into your being.

 

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just see this now. I hope you come back here. I wish I would have come in earlier. Me too am not here too often. Keep it up please!

 

Well put! I sent you a PM. I also quoted and replied on various points posts and comments of yours.

 

You are also really funny.. lol. You just like porn, dont you?
Yea, porn is going nowhere near me i can tell you that.. lol. Porn is bad, alchohol is bad, fuck it.

 

You read my mind!

 

I think it's "other person"

 

When it becomes addiction, it goes wrong.