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Is porn and kink all bad?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Deleted Account, Jul 16, 2018.

  1. Okay, alcohol and morphine addiction don't just outright kill you though, but those have nothing to do with my point mate.
     
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  2. It's seems that some people here are to promote porn lol. Giving their opinions but not accepting the facts.
     
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  3. Phoenix234

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    No I actually got control over it obviously. Not sure about you. No matter how much you try to hide hide yourself 484 day’s buffer? Doesn’t work for me buddy....What a cheap way of reply!
     
  4. Phoenix234

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    No Sarah you don’t have a point. No matter how hard you try. Read what I am really saying and it might help you quite a bid!
     
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    I can send you stats. You can google yourself. It’s clear that almost everybody watches including the girls. More or less and yes there is a huge danger and the addiction is terrible and can ruin people’s life’s. No question. Not saying anything about that fact. I try to stress another point.
    I am also stressing that besides getting addicted people also do not get addicted! That’s my Comp to alc
     
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    Hilarious comment from the side from nowhere not relating to nothing
     
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    What did you say? lol.
     
  8. IggyIshness

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    Yea your fake survey and interests zero. Porn is bad for you, no matter how you slice it. Worse than masturbating.
     
  9. Phoenix234

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    Happy you can laugh so much. Great for you. One day you might be able to get a step further and look clearer
     
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    Yes I realize this. I won’t go further into the subject. I made the huge mistake to share important points I discovered. Instead of a benefit it turned into a fight on many fronts. It tells me a lot. Keep holding on to your view as I see you need this to be that way just like most others and more important than to see true points. But I really do not want to keep mocking you. Forgive me I won’t any further. I know what I know. I know what I discovered and what it means to me and in general. I know my vision and what it means. I know which direction to go and which conclusions to draw.

    I truly wish you the best and hope I didn’t offend you too much.

    This message also goes for you Sarah. Sorry again and best to you guys!
     
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    Both are harmful in their sense
    Porn affects brain
    Masturbation affects body
     
  12. I actually do have a point and it's you who is being bloody pig headed, why are you still quoting me? I'm talking with others not you, so much for you being done with me for the third time.
     
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  13. I have Googled it and those stats make 0 sense in what you're claiming.

    I never said "nobody watches porn", and nor did I say "nobody gets addicted", come on man learn to read... Addicted or not porn it's terrible for your brain period and that's what I keep stressing but you believe it's not a core problem, fine go believe or watch whatever you want but for the new members here I don't want them seeing this crap thinking it's okay or using it as an excuse.
     
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  14. Yeah, besides asking about the stats I honestly had no interest conversing with him, I was just talking to other members and he keeps butting in. lol
     
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    I think the important thing to remember is that porn isn't the same as kink. it's true that a fair amount of the "BDSM community" is focused on porn. But things don't have to be like that, and we don't have to live like that.

    A kinky person can give up porn, just like a vanilla person can. Or, looked at another way, porn can damage kinky relationships just as it does vanilla ones, and someone who's free of porn can have a great, happy, meaningful kinky or BDSM relationship just as they can have a great vanilla relationship.

    At least, I think this is a serious view, and it's my view. I realise *some* people might think all kink and all BDSM is (together with porn) part of sex addition. That's a valid view too, but I disagree with it. You'll have to decide what you think.
     
  16. Phoenix234

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    Why do you come bak? I delivered a lot of points you aren’t getting. I tried to shift this to a nice stop of this unfruitful conversation. Why not taking it and rather bitching around here. Even with th S note here you give witness of not getting the slightest of what I say. I never said porn is not a core problem. Nor did I ever say anything against the need to be disciplined once one is hooked to porn to get its mind off.
    I nevertheless try to get your rigid brain to open to see that you judge the porn and how girls dress and spread your moralin essence around and I know you don’t help. Not yourself and not others.
    Porn isn’t the problem as alcohol isn’t period. It’s your brain your problem that’s the problem. But you can’t grab a simple fact like that.
     
  17. Well i also think the same.Mostly people really support porn...Porn is like a virus that destroy our mind as well as our soul....
     
  18. Why did I come back? This isn't even your thread and you're the one who told me you were done, as I keep stating I had no interest in talking to you and was actually conversing with others yet here you are.

    Yeah I know you're salty and everything but you just come across as an i****, we all tried explaining it different ways but there's literally no point in talking to someone like you. I'm not the problem, you are mate.
     
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  19. Phoenix234

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    Clarification! I am not saying to anyone who is addicted to not continue the discipline needed to get off porn addiction and to avoid porn and to work hard to adjust ones brain and ones setting in the head. Absolutely necessary. And yes. If someone got hooked by porn and became an addict porn is poison for him that he needs to be super careful with and avoid.

    I am NOT advocating for porn. I tried to bring in a completely different true point that can’t enter because the community is so deeply set to blame porn for the problem instead of ones mind ones conduct and ones own responsibility onky which is a HUGE mistake. And a huge hindrance to solve the issue one has. Because as long as you combat the trouble anywhere outside of yourself you working on the wrong place.
    If you project your negativity to a theme and that theme is the root of all evil in your mind that you hi der yourself to eliminate that very negativity you have that is needed to eliminate so you can solve the porn issue. A huge huge very important point.
    In every constructive gathering points like that would be picked up and discussed openly and to the benefit of the parties. It did not work out which is fine. I might have myself insulted and stepped on people toes bringing about such results which is difficult for me when I see strong resistance where openness is more appropriate.a trap I still easy fall into at Times. So apology and best to all. So hope this subject can be put at rest. I will not continue commenting unless someone addresses me directoy. Best to all
     
  20. Phoenix, you need to calm down. You're the only one here (well and Dhalia, but you're obviously the same person) who is getting personal and making personal judgements and attacks. You've said multiple very rude things, personally, about several people here, and its uncalled for. And actually against the rules. I could report it, but I generally prefer to handle things myself first if possible. But you need to calm down and not be so rude and take things so personally. You dont need to act like everyone who doesnt agree with you is simple minded or a bad person or all of the other things you've said about people here. Its unnecessary and not cool. If you dont know how to gracefully handle someone disagreeing with you, you probably shouldnt begin such controversial conversations that people are obviously going to have strong opposition of.
     

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