Struggling with finding someone

Hey man, how often do you approach and how comfortable are you doing it?

 

It isn't rocket science, just start talking to girls and find some with some common interests as you and ask her out on a date.

 

It is.

 

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To many times in my life ,all you can do ask them out and if you get turned down move on to someone who is interested in you that's what I do not everyone is going to like or dislike you

 

Being that I can relate, I was a 18 year old college student that was single just like you. I'm gonna go ahead and tell you that its not about approaching bro, it's about building a life that you enjoy. Remember you are in control of your actions in life. Work on yourself first bro its a tough thing to take in but it will lead to people being attracted to you instead of the other way around. Here's a video to help you out with this, trust me I'm only 2 days into nofap, but my motivation is definitely increasing.

www.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=kRWvwcvOg68

 

Actually, for me, *literally*, rocket science is easier than women! I'm 30, and don't understand women or dating. I completely understand feeling lost and lonely, OP, because that's me too.

 

Same shit happens to me bro, sometimes you need to just let them go and drive themselves into their own ditches with their attitude. I know its tough to hear but you gotta move on and use this as a lesson for the next girl that comes along

 

Yeah bro I feel you on that one, I've had that happen to me before even when the guy is a complete dick. The bottom line is, he got the girl I was falling head over heels for, and honestly I'm glad things worked out the way it did. They are going to spend the rest of their lives never having the motivation and drive that I do because they never failed the way I did. The saddest thing in life is not to fail or succeed, but in never failing because people like that live a life filled with regret of never leaving their comfort zone. They suffer on their deathbeds with angst and regret. We are the winners, because we don't quit.

 

Don't look after a girlfriend. your approching this wrong.
start Powerlifting, reading, studying, meditating and overall improve your social skills. Girls will come

 

I like this.

 

Finally I found some brothers with the same problems. Earlier I was really upset that everyone around me gots in a relationship, except me. Everytime when I saw couples, I feeled miserable and wanted this too. But then, months ago, I found my BFF, who helped me a lot and enlightened me that first of all I must work on myself right now. Doing the driving license, go to the gym, learn new Breakdancemoves. And that was the point why I started with NoFap, because everytime when I feeled lonely and thought that I never get a girlfriend, I watched porns and masturbated at them. Now I know that pornos are harmful to me. What I want to say is don`t put yourself down when a girl ignores you. This means she isn`t the right person for you. The right girl will stay and love you.

"God separates us from people who harm us", - Tupac Shakur

 

It is...

 

I have this issue too. But I don’t know. I often wonder if it has something to do with culture or her sending body language signals that I don’t understand. I have been to multiple places around the world and women seem different than in the USA. I don’t know.

 

The women in America seem to be more emotionally guarded, I noticed. The women in Brazil and Sweden. Haha.