Ex-girlfriend issues

not gonna lie she sounds like a terrible person. I think your grandfather was right about her. If she had any sort of human decency she wouldn't flirt with anyone let alone your own friends! that's messed up!

Seems like she's a trouble maker and might get in between you and your friend, I went through a similar experience... stay away from her dude. Those girls are nothing but trouble

 

It'll take time... or you can start flirting with other girls

 

If she's starting to flirt with your friends right after breaking up with you, I think you dodged a bullet there, as she doesn't seem like a good woman. Your grandfather may have been right about her. Family can often see things more clearly than we can, as they're not on a neurochemical roller-coaster from infatuation.

 

Let me tell you a bit of my story. I was in a relationship with this one girl for about six months, most of it long-distance, and we had actually been starting to talk marriage. She actually broke up with me via text message like 2 days before Christmas, and wouldn't answer her phone to discuss it. She simply cut me off entirely after sending me a 5 word text message breaking up with me. I was devastated at the time, but I later found out she literally married some other guy only five months after breaking up with me. She was in some sort of rush to get married and have kids, but I wasn't. I really believe I dodged a bullet there. I'm actually glad I never actually slept with her, though we fooled around. That may have been part of the reason she broke up with me, but I simply had a gut instinct about her and never really trusted her. Apparently my instincts were right, though!

 

Literally my life story... with exception to a couple of details. Dated a girl for 3 weeks, but she was in a rush to get married and wasn't. I also never trusted her because she was a bit shady...