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do you guys think shes trying to avoid me or something?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Kian_boem98, Jul 29, 2018.

  1. Kian_boem98

    Kian_boem98 Fapstronaut

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    so the other day at work i was giving people there food at their table & when i went over i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school just sitting at the table with her boyfriend & i just stood there looking at her but then i looked away & went back to work. then the other day i saw her boyfriend buying food for the both of them but she didnt go with him i guess.

    but then the next day when i went out with my friends at the mall i guess she was there with her boyfriend & was talking about me because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then looked away.
     
  2. TheGoldenEra

    TheGoldenEra Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Your looking too into it. Forget her, move on, find a better girl ;)
     
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  3. It doesnt sound like shes paying any attention to you. Whatever you think is going on seems like its all in your head.
     
  4. TheGoldenEra

    TheGoldenEra Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Preached
     
  5. tweeby

    tweeby Banned

    tldr you creeped her out, work on yourself find someone who is interested.
     
  6. ThatOneBro

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    You're looking for something that isn't there. Sure, you've found it, but it doesn't mean it actually exists.
     
  7. Sorry but yeah, sounds exactly like she is ignoring you.
     
  8. Kian_boem98

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    you think so but that day when i saw her at work i was just staring at her from afar but then i just looked away & went back to work. so then weeks later i saw her boyfriend buying food but i guess she didnt go with him
     
  9. TheGoldenEra

    TheGoldenEra Distinguished Fapstronaut

    What's her boyfriend buying got anything to do with it? He's hungry so surely he's gonna wanna eat right? Staring, buying food. No correlation imo
     
  10. I am not quite following what you might think all this means but I would think if she was interested, she would start by looking back at you, maybe come talk to you. Or, maybe she would come and buy the food for her boyfriend instead and not bring him.
     
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  11. Kian_boem98

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    yeah & that one time when i went to the mall with my friends & i guess she was there with her boyfriend & was talking about me because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then looked away. so i guess she was saying to him thats the guy who kept on staring at me back in high school lol
     
  12. TheGoldenEra

    TheGoldenEra Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Look man the world don't revolve around you. They could be talking about anything, come on tho bro. Move on from her, you'll find someone better (probably)
     
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  13. Kian_boem98

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    yeah so i guess she doesnt wanna see me because i already seen her boyfriend two times at work buying food & whenever he sees me it looks like he laughing at me
     
  14. TheGoldenEra

    TheGoldenEra Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Lol man u don't get it. They most probably and genuinely don't give a damn, really dude. Live your life, do your thing and stop over analysing and obsessing over everything
     
  15. Ra's Al Ghul

    Ra's Al Ghul Fapstronaut

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    I think it's safe to say you won't be celebrating your 75th Wedding anniversary with her.
     
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  16. FGHTFRLF

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    Just don’t read too much into it. So far, she hasn’t made any contact with you for you to properly decide anything. I would say that you should just pursue your purpose and just stir up the waters to find new fish.
    At the end of the day, she’s just a girl who’s got a guy committing to her probably.
     
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  17. Nightbynight

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    The question you really need to ask yourself is.. Does it matter?
     
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