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do you like girls who wear make-up?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by astronaut prime, Jul 23, 2018.

  1. Honestly I gotta say, I'm getting so sick of reading these replies. All of this just makes me want to scream mind your own damn business. Let people be happy and stop judging people you dont know over something as insignificant as makeup. Nobody knows a persons heart except that person, so maybe stop making so many dang assumptions about women based on what they wear on their face. I honestly can't imagine walking around judging every guy over what kind of cologne they wear or what kind of clothes they wear or judging women on how much makeup they wear, etc. If someone is acting like a total attention whore that's one thing, but I'd all you have to go on is how a person dresses and you choose to assume you know enough about that person based just on that to make your judgements, then you need to grow up.
     
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  2. ClaudeDuval

    ClaudeDuval Fapstronaut

    My GF tells me "Why do you love me so much? I'm not the most attractive person, you're way out of my league" etc. She's not a preppy bimbo that wears heaps of make up(still gorgeous tho) but her personality is perfect so that makes her 10 times as attractive. I fell in love with her before I even knew what she looked like(we were anonymous friends online). This idea that all men are superficial and shallow is absolutely ridiculous... Furthermore, we are allowed to have opinions on women. Just like if a man is wearing too much shitty cologne a woman would be like "Oh god what a douche...." etc. The minute a man has an opinion on women or has a standard it's "WOMEN CAN DO WHATEVER THEY WANT OMG JUDGMENTAL PRICKS!!!" The sexiest women I have ever known have worn little to no make up and this isn't someone on TV where I wasn't sure, but people I have known in person and have been with. "Men say they hate make up yet if we wear no make up they'll think were gross" actually it's going to be other women that will judge you more than we will... Lol Women are entirely more judgmental of other women, most of us truly dislike heaps of make up. Learn to love your real face, thats it... & if some 17 year old boys think you aren't "sexy" because you don't look like a porn star, then that's no big loss.
     
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  3. Literally nobody here is saying that or acting that way.

    Well, good for you for not being like that, but you dont speak for all men, and that definitely happens. And yes, women judge other women like crazy, and that's ridiculous too. If other women were in this thread being judgemental and rude, I would be saying the same thing to them.
     
  4. Funny AF and truer than TRUE!!! ThanQ @Castielle for a good chuckle!!! :)
     
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  5. Octoling

    Octoling Fapstronaut

    I can be sure my SO wasn't wearing make-up until recently. We have been together for a long time, I fell for her in high school before she even started dressing up, which she did for me. We've lived together between now and then, so I know her daily routine, and when she started, she had to learn from her sister and wasn't very good at it the first few times. So, yes, I'm certain I fell in love with her natural self.
     
  6. ClaudeDuval

    ClaudeDuval Fapstronaut

    Ive seen this too... with my gf its other women in her life saying "you never wear make up" etc. As if shes not a "real woman" unless she goes along with societal norms. Her mother, friends, etc. Tell her to buy make up. I reassure her that she looks great without it... shes thankful to have someone who doesnt pressure her into it.
     
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  7. Yeah, its sometimes a bit jarring to come across someone who doesn't wear makeup, because that's not the norm, but I usually respect those people a lot, honestly. I dont always wear makeup if I'm just running out to the store real quick or something, but if I'm going to an event where I'm going to see a lot of friends or something, I would feel really uncomfortable without makeup on. Which is kind of sad. I respect the people who can feel totally comfortable in their own skin enough to not care about that. Most of the time I dont really care, but I'm certainly not perfect.
     
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  8. Nightbynight

    Nightbynight Fapstronaut

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    I've spoken to many friends about this topic and the very general consensus I've gleamed is most men like make up until the point it's noticable.
    And many men will say they don't care but will definitely notice the difference if you go a month without.
    Me personaly I prefer girls with a more natural look with light make up but really it completely depends on the girl and how she does it. Some girls just dont know when enough is enough and I say that from close experience.
    I have five sisters so I get to see a wide range of methods, one will have her face a different colour to the rest of her neck and hands, while another will be as colourfull as a clown. One wears no make up at all and the others are very subtle with theirs where as to complement their features rather than to hide or overpower them.
    The only make up I cant stand is conturing which when applied to the face, legs or even abs, allows the wearer to appear COMPLETELY different to the point where you wonder if you're waking up next to the same girl you went to bed with.


    Alas there are many pressures to look good for women and we all have insecurities. People like what they like the way they like it and its each to their own.
     
  9. Ub3rT1m3

    Ub3rT1m3 Fapstronaut

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    That video... Just, wow ^

    The 2nd girl :eek:
     
  10. It is mostly about insecurities. All this nonsense about women that cannot even come out of their room, let alone leave the house until they have "put their face on." But it is not their face, it is somebody else's, cooked up in a damn laboratory. o_O

    As for the short video you linked in your post. The so-called transformations are horrific! They women look plastic and unreal. It is like they have been overcome by a malicious alien force that has processed and repackaged them! Yuck! o_O
     
  11. I agree, i thought the women looked better before the make up. Not that they were gorgeous or anything, but the make up was just creepy.
     
  12. Lovable king

    Lovable king Fapstronaut

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    No make up ... most beautiful thing in this worlds are girls ... i wanna like to see their natural beauty...
     
  13. Again... that's just not always true at all. But even when it is, where do you think those insecurities come from? Society dictating for years and years that women dont look good without makeup, and makeup becoming such a norm that when you dont wear any people think you look tired or lazy.

    I heard a great quote once. Someone said "How do men always look so great without makeup?" The response was "Because society hasn't told men that they need it." And that's completely true. If nobody had ever decided that women should wear makeup, then women would look just fine and be happy without it. I think it's a bit thoughtless and rude to just judge women as being insecure for wearing makeup, and act like they should just get over it and be happy with how they look, especially when you dont jnow what it's like to be in their shoes in that department, because men aren't expected to wear makeup.

    And by the way, when I wear makeup, it is absolutely still my face. It's not plastic surgery or something. It's a decoration not a transformation, unless you do tons of contouring or whatever, but most average girls dont have time for that stuff.
     
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  14. What a rude thing to say. Why can't y'all just let people do what they want to do and not be so dang judgemental about it? There are plenty of styles of dress that I dont find attractive, but if they love it and are happy about it, I'm not going to exchange pictures or videos with my friends and say how gross and disgusting they look. And if I did do that, I would be wrong and a jerk, because theres no reason for that kind of judgement and negativity.
     
  15. Really? Well I will leave you to it then, to defend women wearing make up by insinuating it is all men's fault! :rolleyes: ROFL! :p
     
  16. When did I ever say that? I said society. Women are part of society. I have never once blamed men for women feeling the need to wear makeup.
     
  17. Also, I'm not defending women wearing makeup by saying they are some kind of victims who can't help it. I'm defending them by saying that everyone has different preferences and styles that they like, and theres no reason to be rude and judgemental towards people for liking something different than you.
     
  18. Thats a great line, i totally agree.

    I have no problem with that, i think make up can look attractive, i just dont like when its caked on.

    I see where you're coming from definitely, but im sorry to say, he's right. There is no excuse for wearing that much make up and it looks just plain creepy. I wouldnt say that to a woman's face, but i see no problem commenting on a video that way. It doesnt get anymore fake.
     
  19. I inferred that, in error. I apologise.
     
  20. Well, to each his own. Personally I think it's a bit rude to say "yuck" about the way a person looks. Not so say I've never felt that way about other people, because I'm sure I have, but I was wrong too. I dont think it's kind or right to judge people like that and make assumptions about them like they're insecure or whatever.
     
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