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advise please

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by sheeps, Aug 4, 2018.

  1. sheeps

    sheeps Fapstronaut

    hey guys im A 15 year old male and need some advice

    so in my country right now its summer vacation and its going to stays so for about a month (until 1 september ) but im not realy a social type so im just sitting in my room the hole vacation long and i want to make a change and thats why i started nofap but i've
    heard that to realy feel the benefits and overcome youre addiction you need to transform youre sexual energy in other things. In my case socialising more ( i want to work on being more social in school to and have more confidence,motivation etc)
    so my question is should i wait for nofap until school begins. So that i can put my motivation,confidence,increased energy in to the people their because if im gonna do this now i dont know if it is going to have much effect

    btw i've been fapping since i was 11 and did it almost everyday 2 times during school days and in weekends 4 to 6 times a day so im realy addicted

    im on a 2 day streak now after a hard 10 day period of constant binging. I could not get past 1 day so yeah.....
     
  2. ClassyKing

    ClassyKing Fapstronaut

    You might want to practice rebooting alone before school. If your having trouble now than it's only gonna get harder when your around other people.

    As far as socializing more is concerned, try joining a club or a free activity, something that forces people to engage with you in conversation. I play a trading card game so once a week I gather together with people to play. Something like that but with something you enjoy to do.
     
  3. FGHTFRLF

    FGHTFRLF Fapstronaut

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    Start NoFap now. Why start when everyone else starts, when you’ve already prepared and already know what to do and expect?
    I recommend to start with positive habits now, then start planning on how your entire semester will go during late August (if you want to).
    It’s like learning how to play a game. You could learn now, or you could learn while you and your friends are playing. Better to learn and beat your friends when it’s time.
     
  4. sheeps

    sheeps Fapstronaut

    thanks but how do i need to learn how to socialise better if i dont have social contact except with my family
     
  5. FGHTFRLF

    FGHTFRLF Fapstronaut

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    To socialize better for now is to understand all of the principles of what friendship is based upon, and so on. You want to expand your knowledge on the subject during this free period of time. You might also want to try to take time to learn about different types of people and the mind. For a course on friendship, there’s a YouTuber by the name of “***” starting his own new series called “Beefriend”, which is a course on understanding and learning on how to build rapport and creating stable friendships. I recommend you check it out.
     
  6. sheeps

    sheeps Fapstronaut

    ok thanks i will do that
     

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