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24 (F) trying to quit PVMO for future relationships

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by K8!, Aug 7, 2018.

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  1. K8!

    K8! New Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone, I’m 24 (f) and have been unsuccessful in trying to quit PVMO(?? Hope that’s correct terminology) I have not been in a relationship since I was 16, am pretty shy unless I’m around my closest friends, and Im a virgin. I am fearful that when I do finally begin an intimate relationship, that I’ll only be conditioned to respond to fantasies/pornography. I really and truly want to quit the habit once and for all. Sorry if this is a bit vague, I only created my account about 30 minutes ago! Thanks for reading.
     
  2. Hi @K8! and welcome to our community! You came to the right place to succeed. If you need help you can ask us :)
    Keep strong and good luck!
     
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  3. ClaudeDuval

    ClaudeDuval Fapstronaut

    Greetings, pmo will certainly make you even more shy. And you are right, pmo fantasies will bleed into real life, it happened to me(violent sex). Work on finding a real partner, have a wholesome loving real sex life, not a fantasy fake masturbatory life. Hard reboot will help :)
     
  4. TheManDude

    TheManDude Fapstronaut

    Welcome K8! It's a good choice to quit Porn, masturbation and orgasm for a rebooth i'm sure you'll get to enjoy your relationships a lot more.
    Good luck, I know you can do it.
     
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  5. Legendz

    Legendz Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap!

    It'll take time to completely conquer PMO but you are in the right place here, more power to you for facing it.

    Its a helpfull community so if you have any questions or want to share stuff don't hesitate.

    Good luck :)
     
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  6. Welcome here! I'm new too, and I find the sense of community here really inspiring. We need each other, to encourage each other and to help each other out. All the best on your journey to recovery. :)
     
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  7. Maltheal

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    Great of you to come here and I believe fighting PMO will help you more with your relationships and your shyness I also had a similar experience and by time you’ll be better you have to summon all the courage inside you for the first time then after that I’ll be easier to proceed
    I hope you have a great time and some great relationships inthe near future :)
     
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  8. Maltheal

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    Great of you to come here and I believe fighting PMO will help you more with your relationships and your shyness I also had a similar experience and by time you’ll be better you have to summon all the courage inside you for the first time then after that I’ll be easier to proceed
    I hope you have a great time and some great relationships inthe near future :)
     
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  9. hardowner

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    Hello, welcome to the community. I'm a shy person too, but luckily, I found the way out. (I think so...) I believe that the most wise action you should take ASAP, would be getting rid of the Verminator. You are in his killmark 24/7. Do not engage him head on...
     
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  10. You made the right decision by wanting to quit. So true fantasies ruin real life they do condition your brain to answer to certain things. Don't believe the lies out there like I did some idiots so-called sex experts advice girls to engage in fantasies, erotica and even porn to become sexually educated that's a bunch of crap. We don't need that the best stuff is real life interactions with the right people for the right reasons.
     
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  11. RingoRules

    RingoRules Fapstronaut

    What is PVMO? Or did you mean PMO?
     
  12. You chose the right thing to do!
    Welcome aboard, and good luck healing!
     
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  13. hardowner

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    PMO+ vibrator...
     

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