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Zero libido

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Jay77, Jul 16, 2018.

  1. Jay77

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    Hey guys does anyone have any experience with this? I’ve started NoFap coming on to 12 days now. But my sex drive has almost plummeted to nothing I used to mastubate everyday to porn now I don’t feel like watching porn but I also feel no sense to do anything sexual is this a reboot?
     
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  2. Health is key

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    This is the dreaded flatline my friend!!! Lots of information on this. Go on yourbrainonporn.com as well as watch youtube videos by Noah Church and Gabe Deem. Both are great resources on this. It is the period of deep healing of the brain so try and make peace with it in your mind and accept that this is part of the recovery process. Do not test out your penis with porn or masturbation!!! Just leave it alone.
     
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  3. itachi.

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    yeah man but strong urges will come , this is process. i dont think that it is flatline because u come on to 12 days. i think it is because u stay away from all triggers
     
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  4. Health is key

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    I diasagree. I typically went into flatline a week-2 weeks into nofap and this is quite common. I reckon it is flatline.
     
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  5. Jay77

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    Thank you soo much for the replies!! Will be sure to check out all the information you guys have given me!! It’s soo scary like just being blank when it comes to it, but I’m gonna leave downstairs alone in hope things fire up when they are ready! Thank you for the support really appreciate it. NoFap is an awesome thing soo damn hard tho
     
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  6. hardowner

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    I have exactly the same symptoms. I want to ask, I see many triggers every day but I feel no reactions on my body. Is this normal?
     
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  7. itachi.

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    yeah it is normal, it is flat line
     
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  8. ClassyKing

    ClassyKing Fapstronaut

    I'm going through one right now. No morning wood to speak of, and nothing is making me hard. Haven't tried masturbating yet, but I used to just think of something sexual and I'd get a boner. Now I'm limp and numb.
     
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  9. Anonymous86

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    Would you describe your penis to be shriveled and small/shrunken?
     
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  10. In my previous successful 90 day reboot i had a period of being flatlined too. I had very long periods when i just did not feel anything at all. No sex drive, limp dick, dead libido. My penis was small, and nothing could get it up... It was like being a zombie i had little to no desire to meet any girls. This is part of the healing process, when you have been doing PMO for so long it messes up your brain. You get desensitised. Another way to look at it is if you were to eat, chocolate in high quantities for every single meal every day. Its unhealthy and no matter how good it tastes eventually you will get bored and stop craving it. Because you have overstimulated yourself by having too much of it. The same can be said for watching porn.

    I dont currently have a flatline in fact its the opposite i'm horny as hell! Morning wood is back, erections are almost back to normal too. But i have to be patient and keep heading towards those 90 days first.
     
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  11. ClassyKing

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    I wouldn't say shrunkin, I'm soft but I still feel movement done there. It's just hard to get HARD. Like I feel the contractions, but nothing comes from them. It's almost like my dick has sleep paralysis.
     
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  12. Anonymous86

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    Same here, except my dick is shrunken. I hope that what I have is normal for PIED.
     
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  13. Health is key

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    From my experience the smaller the penis goes the deeper the healing haha. Mine literally shrank to like 1 cm in length for like a 2 week period during my deepest flatlines. I'm over 6 inches when hard. It is kinda funny but don't be scared when the flatline ends then boom! you will have erections again.
     
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  14. dbp2252

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    I am on like day 86 of No PMO (hard mode)(age 30, a virgin,never even kissed a girl)(masturbating for 13/14 years,5 to 6 traditional methods and 7/8 years to internet porn) (from start only masturbated by rubbing against bed, soft pillow or balloons)(Never masturbated in traditional way)

    I had the shrunken penis since long time, before I came to know the reason, nofap,ybop and all this. Still continued to PMO and started getting weak erections to even porn like 50%/60% and would still masturbate. The day I came to know why I have this issue. I just became porn free.. Made my decision and I have not even had a single thought of watching porn.

    Had a lifeless less and shriveled dick for like a long time, 75 days in and I noticed that the it had grown and the flaccid size was bit elongated. Even got a good movement. It was all good for a week. I thought will be healed soon but again it just went away.
    Its been a week now that I feel numb again. It's like someone switched off the life switch in my penis. Its soft and numb also its a bit between previous shriveled and the recent elongated size. And now a small amount of "urine dripping" has started. I went to urologist he checked physically and blood and T levels all are normal. He said just talk with your gf/wife...go for more foreplay, stay in moment or else use end drugs for the first few times. Also about porn and masturbation he said anything excess is bad.

    No feelings at all. Feeling numb and asexual.

    Hope it get betters. Stay strong brothers.

    I assume its pied, but insights and suggestions are welcome.

    Anyone who has went through this stage can plz share the right way.
    I seriously thank God for making our brains as the way he has. Atleast that gives us a chance to fight back. Else we were doomed.

    I am actually in a very difficult position, its like literally between rock and a hard place.. Plz pray for me all. Need to cure this pied. I still Dont know how I would react to a real life sex situation. But my head is all filled with this pied stuff, am unable to get anything done. Since the day I have found this, had 6/7 KGS of weight loss in two months and bad hairfall too. Dont know the connection. Hope it all stops soon. Have been taking health supplements but have severely damaged my confidence and now its taking a toll on my daily tasks ..I Dont even know how to react to all this. Its killing me from inside.
     
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  15. Health is key

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    Stay strong brother. I know people that have been in flatline for a year before their libido recovered. at 90 days I suggest masturbating without porn to touch alone. It may help jump start your libido! look up Gabe deem he went through a really long flatline.
     
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  16. itachi.

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    i don't recommend MO, 90 days is not enough. a few touch maybe, but MO leads PMO.
     
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  17. dbp2252

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    Bro I seriously have a question for you all....how can one masturbate to just sensation ? I mean without a srimulation how would the dick get erect ? I mean I may be silly..i mean my question may look silly ...but plz explain..I tried it two threw times..it just went up for 40/50% but no feelings...just for that one week when it was normal I got 70/80% erection by sensation...is it due to the method i used for masturbation ?
     
  18. dbp2252

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    Dude honestly I am done with my fapping for this life time...it will be either PIV or no sexual activity hence forth !
     
  19. dbp2252

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    Dude honestly I am done with my fapping for this life time...it will be either PIV or no sexual activity hence forth !
     
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  20. Uncomfortably Numb

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    The real test would be in a scenario with areal woman who you are attracted too... if it doesn't work then you are in flatline
     

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