Hello everyone!

I am new to this community and I hope I will be able to run with some of you guys!

A brief introduction...

I am 21 years old and will be graduating college in about 6 months. I am quite the introvert... I have very few close friends and I've been single my entire life. My greatest passion is street dance, specifically popping. And this is difficult for me to do, considering that this is quite an extroverted thing to participate in i.e. going to jams/battles/cyphers/etc, but I've been using this hobby to stretch my comfort zone. Aside from this, I'm a PC gaming tech nerd (kind of) who enjoys keeping up with the latest games and the latest technology (currently building a personal gaming rig that I'm excited for!)

My motivations for registering are... basically for self-improvement. To develop a healthy sense of self love and trust and confidence in myself. I believe that confidence breeds confidence and that it comes from small victories hammered out day by day. This is how I see Nofap... small wins every day. My main motivation for starting this journey with Nofap is to further direct my energy and focus to improve certain areas of my life, namely my social and recreational life.

As I mentioned before, I've never had a girlfriend. I'm not expecting Nofap to serve me as a no-brainer, cookie-cutter remedy for 21 years of introvertedness and sexual frustration. But I believe in my goal for self improvement, and I think learning to like/appreciate myself and learning how to self-generate positive emotions rather than doubting/talking down to myself is the most important step. After all, if I don't like myself then why should I expect a future partner to like me, right? So yeah... one goal is to develop a more fruitful social life... go out and socialize more, expand my circle of friends and...get a girlfriend! The other goal is to direct energy and focus towards dancing... err.. yeah!!

Once again, to those of you who took the time to read this, I look forward to hammering out daily victories with you. It's going to be tough... but nothing worth having comes easy, right? Happy holidays, guys! And I wish you all the best. Peace.