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Excessive Prostitutes Visit

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by landeni, Aug 11, 2018.

  1. Digger2

    Digger2 Fapstronaut

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    I too have had quite a few prostitutes though cost is always a limiting factor. But when you say you don't have much of an issue with porn, for me there is not a whole lot of difference between porn and the whole process of trolling various escort sites, looking up reviews, and planning for the event. In trying to abstain from porn in the past, one of my rationals for investigating escorts was it wasn't really porn.
     
  2. I'm in similar situation as OP.

    The increase in frequency and kink - it's the same. It's very much like with porn.
     
  3. landeni

    landeni New Fapstronaut

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    Ed, I’m with you - yes, forgot to mention in my first post - I’m based in SEA and prostitutes here are just really good, so risk is less, money is cheaper, pleasure is higher...

    But same with porn, it’s the sheer ease and availability that makes it easy to keep falling into the same routine and get addicted. Much less chance when living in US/UK...

    So while you’re counting the days for your next trip, you’re already conditioning yourself for the next high... that’s the phsychological addiction trap we’re falling into...
     
  4. Illicit pleasure is a thing that leaves you asking for more and more...
    Having fast food everyday might be more pleasurable... But in the true sense it will never compare with the pleasure offered by a healthy, balanced diet.
    To see things in proper perspective... Is what you need.
    Sex with a real woman, and the relationship as a whole May sound bland to you like a healthy diet... But it is the best thing ever.
     
  5. Marcothebest_1995

    Marcothebest_1995 Fapstronaut

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    Think about your wallet. Surely it is not going to be free... Think about what can you do with that money. I believe it is not that small amount, expecially now.

    Why do you need to go to pros? Do you have, like me, problems into getting in touch with a girl? Focus on what you have to improve about yourself.
    Maybe that saved money can be used, as I did and will do again to end my issues, with a good therapist. Don't underestimate this.

    And, after all... What do you think to be for those girls? You are just a source of money. They may have pleasure in having sex, but surely another man will come and it will be the same.
    And, if you aren't in specific country, you feed a criminal organization, sure.
     
  6. SanityOverVanity

    SanityOverVanity Fapstronaut

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    @landeni both you and @Mr. Eddie are sex addicts. Your most recent post confirms it.

    That’s a dopamine rush if I’ve ever heard of one.

    Eddie, I’m not an expert nor am I judging. I’m simply an observer but I believe you may also have some psychopathic tendencies. The fact that you pretty much exclaimed how you believe your wife will react but caring doesn’t even register with you is a big hint.
     
  7. I agree with you about "many are so damn good at their job". Holy shit a couple of the experiences I've had with professionals. It's literally like they're doing a theatrical performance for you, except that you're also in the performance and it revolves around servicing your cock as if you were a king. I feel your pain about having a very hard time staying away from them. they can be so energetic and enthusiastic that it's like they're over-caffeinated sex fairies or something. Christ, now you have me fantasizing about past experiences.
     
  8. Ra's Al Ghul

    Ra's Al Ghul Fapstronaut

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    Just think, would these gals be the least bit interested if you weren't paying?
     
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  9. nope. but that's definitely not the point when you're with a professional. so that doesn't bother me.
     
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  10. MakeOutHill

    MakeOutHill New Fapstronaut

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    Slow and steady wins the race. Focus on bettering yourself and your job.
     
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  11. Well since you claim you make a lot of money, then advertise yourself out there that way to find a girlfriend. After all girls are attracted to guys that make a lot of money.
     
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