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Transgender Issues

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by elenens, Aug 23, 2018.

  1. elenens

    elenens Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys my first post here so I dont really know the rules and I ask you to be kind to me, thanks in advance.

    I'd like to say that I am kind of religious and I dont want to be homosexual, I have always liked women and I never even imagined having sex with a dude so I think this trans interest is some kind of a phase for me or an addiction. But its getting worse every day, and I started to have hard times turning on to women.

    Please do not see my post as homophobic and dont mind my english as I am not a native.

    So basically 3 years ago when I was lurking at 4chan, I came across the trap threads, at first they were disgussing to me and I would avoid them, meanwhile I was also watching Hentai out of boredom.(I was 16 years old). I have seen some drawings of penised women at hentai websites and etc. but I didnt care as I was not interested in man. Later on, I have seen one drawing where there was a normal woman doing erotic stuff, it got me hooked up(it was a [dont know the word but comics about porn]) and I kept reading. As I proceeded main woman attained a dick and become a trans. This would disgust me otherewise but since it gradually happened I kept reading and got aroused. I would not have looked at it if there were a trans at the first place. Then after I have seen that woman, I started to look at the trap threads to see more similar stuff. There were some really beautiful women and my dick was getting hard at them, after when I see their dicks I would get turned off of course but still with a little bit horny feeling. However after a while I started to get aroused looking at them even when their dicks were visible as I didnt care. And I watched some trans porn later.

    At first I would just watch a couple minutes, and close it with a boner. But this started to get worse and worse. After a year or so I would only look at trans porn and not straight porn. I have tried to stop that every now and then. I could last 2 weeks or even more but during this weeks some pornstars were always in my mind.

    Now I tried to try nofap and could do foe 15 days. But today, I watched it again and then jerked off.

    I really feel bad as I only want to be with a woman( my dick doesnt approve, however) and this addiction is affecting my sexual interest.

    So what do you suggest? Should I just watch straighr porn every time I am horny and try to forget them, or not watch at all, or something else?

    All helps are appreciated and sorry for my bad english but think I have made myself clear. Also I am on mobile so I might have typos, will try to fix them later.
     
    Last edited: Aug 23, 2018
  2. elenens

    elenens Fapstronaut

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    Hello and thank you.
    I have a problem. Before I sleep, I always dream about something, and if I dont watch pornography or smth they are always about women especially trans one. That's why I thought watching normal porn might help, what do you think.

    Also great journal, I could not read all yet but I will asap I have some free time.
     
  3. Jason_Tesla_19

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  4. SanityOverVanity

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    90 days hardmode, good luck.
     
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  5. elenens

    elenens Fapstronaut

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    Ty all for replies.

    OK here we go, 90 days NoFap no porn no sexuality. I have tried this once, but couldn't stop looking at erotic things and gave up completely at 45. I hope I can do it this time.
     
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  6. Sprinter123

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    Dude, i have been through exactly the same thing as you. Porn really screws with your concept of what's sexy.
    Like everyone else says, you have to do at least a 90 days hard mode, although really you should abstain from all masturbation for as long as it takes for you to feel free of the porn addiction. I've been through it and i can promise you that it does eventually work.
    That being said... You should also recognise that gender and sexual preferences are fluid, no-one is ever 100% straight or 100% gay (no matter what they say). It's okay to have a part of yourself that likes feminine males, just as it's okay to like feminine females. You just have to focus on what you really want, not what porn has told you to want.
    If you find yourself having undesired fantasies, learn to recognise that and cut them off quickly with distractions, or physical activity. If you find yourself having fantasies which you are more comfortable with then let them play out (but still abstain from any sexual activity during a reboot).
    Overall, the goal should be to break the porn addiction, and fight it for the rest of your life, everything else will come with time.
    Good luck, you can do it!
     
  7. Hitto

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    I had this problem it only gets better with getting rid of all porn you know you don’t want to go down this road porn perverts your mind and your brain will seek things to escalate to get the fix no matter how shameful it was always so exciting and thrilling exciting at first but you feel like shit after you climax and cycle perpetuates until you stop giving in ask god forgiveness and strength to break this addiction don’t judge yourself and beat yourself up too much bro I was getting into that genre but then it was a wake up call you aren’t defined by your past
     
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  8. Lucky for you, there is a simple solution.

    Eliminate all of that porn from your life. You just need a hard reset, that's all.

    Don't even think about any of that messed up fantasy material, focus on stuff that actually matters.
     
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  9. GoPhonix

    GoPhonix Fapstronaut

    You are not alone with this. What noticed about the T-P is that it has different spin on how the focus is on the T-Girl and it can get your mind occupied for some time one is fading into it and I also been thinking that the concentration on you own Penis by MO gives this Trans a kind of connection. Further it can be even this specialty meaning finding a women is easier then finding a beautiful trans-girl depending on how go about it of course.

    I have been hooked on Trans-P for same time since I did not worry so much of being gay and have had real world engagement as well I have seen the whole business of queer as cool, so I cam to the conclusion a exotic side trip into this world is interesting thing because I am open minded .. bla bla. But I see after just 5 days PMO mode how I am 100% falling back to women in my fantasy's its like if I would need to have many women than at the far end of the consumption trans would be coming in to get a notch in the harem. And this is objectification we have to get away from it get to make real love again, who that real love is with, that will know the real love – I believes in real love it must be out there, and PMO just got as far away from it and confused.

    Reboot and let us all be strong.
     
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  10. Hello and welcome!

    I just wanted to say that going back to porn isn't a solution. You know how it goes; you first watch the "normal" stuff and then quickly all the weird stuff follows, and it will be so frustrating getting back to no PMO. I have been into all sorts of fetishes too, and i can tell you that your sexuality normalizes a lot when you abstain long enough, so don't worry.

    Stay strong!
     
  11. elenens

    elenens Fapstronaut

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    Thank y'all guys. Thanks from the bottom of my heart.

    I really needed to talk someone about this problem since my friends are not very open-minded and I could not talk them. Talking to you guys really relieved me, it is really nice seeing more people like you having this problem and getting rid of it later. It really motivated me, I was really nervous back then but now I know I can do it, thank yall for tips and helps and support again.
     
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  12. KillCommunism

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    Dude, you got yourself a new fetish. A disgusting one at that. Just fucking drop the porn all together. If you get horny, just do something else but do not give into the urge to look at porn or even masturbate.

    I thought I had some nasty fetishes nack when, but I'll never understand the transgendered person stuff...
     
  13. elenens

    elenens Fapstronaut

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    Neither do I man, shit just happens. I am not proud of it too.
     
  14. ClaudeDuval

    ClaudeDuval Fapstronaut

    A LOT of men get hooked on the transgendered person/trap stuff... typical porn escalation BS. If you're familiar with Alex Jones the online political personality, he was just ousted for watching trans porn(flashed opened tabs on his phone on accident in a live video) lol
     
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  15. Out of all people Alex Jones just seems like the type to watch transgendered person porn
     
  16. ClaudeDuval

    ClaudeDuval Fapstronaut

    My thoughts exactly... Lmao "Put in chemicals in the water that make me love transgendered person porn"
     
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  17. If the chemicals in the water turn the frogs gay is Alex Jones a frog confirmed???
     
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  18. Khufu

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    My Journal
    everything practiced in the dark well always be shown in the light
     
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  19. To be more specific: escalation occurs when you get bored with what you're watching and you look for something different . A lot of porn sites are glad to help this along by popping up something different . Different == hot! And for many guys that will end up being "transwoman" or "transgendered person" porn. It happened to me and many, many others.

    The research (and website stats) indicates that the guys who like this stuff are still heterosexuals. But the porn environment has twisted them around to where normal porn is less exciting.

    Many guys who abstain from porn report that their tastes revert to those they had prior to porn.
     
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  20. Hitto

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    Haha I read that in his voice lmao
     
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