Anybody was lonely in the past and made friends succesfully and|or became social?

Yeah, I feel you. It’s never perfect, or ideal. We just gotta keep doing it. To relate to your signature, “The anxiety, too, shall pass.”

Thanks for your perspective!

 

Before I say anything... I am brazilian, so my english isn't the best.

My childhood was quite strange. My parents split up when I was really young, four years old, I think. Then, I went to live with my grandmother, and we moved to another city. Firstly, in this city, I was really shy, and I didn't have any friends in the start. As the time moved on, I got some friends, but all of them got to live in other city, and I moved to live in other place, which was sad and ugly. I was very intelligent, and in a new school I suffered a light bullying case, in which I was called "four-eyes" because I used some glasses in that time, and "CDF", which means - seriously - "cu-de-ferro", or in english, "iron-ass". It could mean that I could handle a lot, I don't really know. I think "CDF" is the same as "Nerd". Anyway, in this school, some colleagues introduced me to a porn movie, and there I started to masturbate, with nine years old. As the time passed, I started to get more and more depressed. I used to watch some hardcore pornography (anything you could imagine), and got a psychiatrich diagnosis, which said I was a borderline. Yeah, yeah, very sad.
I got really antisocial in a moment, but as the time passed, I got back to the city where I was born, and in the new school - already 16 -, I knew some guys who helped me a lot. Like, A LOT, and today I can call them friends. With the other people it's all the same. They hate me as a human being, and I hate them back, and it's all okay. But... I really wish I could be more social, you know? The type of person who gets out of home and watch a movie with five friends. And I am really, really, about to evolve.

 

Recognize your sexual frustration, don’t be in denial


Since dejection is considered uncomfortable to some, it’s unlikely someone will willingly admit their dishearteness because they aren’t getting laid. But it’s understandable how one’s sexual frustration is depressing.

Also, working out does pleasing things for the mind and body. Once you sense and look good, you improve great self-worth and you won’t mind to come for someone worth your love and body.