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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by antonkowal, Dec 27, 2014.

  1. antonkowal

    antonkowal New Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone. I'm 19 year old man from Poland. My problem with mastrubation began when I was about 12. Firstly It was just a play recommended by schoolmates. After 2 years of irregular fapping and watching softcore pornography i discovered that I don't fell well with it. Unfortunately it was too late, I guess. And since that time I can't win with my addiction. I have some better or worse moments but my record is only a month without fapping, pornography or orgasm. I rather don't watch hardcore porns, maybe only when have long periods of fapping and I fell really irritable or sth like that. What involves me the most are sex scenes from movies, videos from playboy photoshoots and similar stuff. Maybe two years ago I had to stimulate it and masturbate during watching that but now it's enough for me to watch it and after half or one hour I have an orgasm. So why and when I usually do that? It usually starts with social sites like Facebook, when somebody share or just like some sexy photo or video and I usually wath it and fell really horny after that and it forces me to watch other videos. To be honest I can't imagine my life without Facebook. But it's not the only site. Sexy stuff is almost everywhere and to my mind it's impossible to avoid it now. So why I want to give up it? There are few reasons. The first one is that I waste too much time on it. The other ones are my religious beliefs (I'm a Catholic) and side effects of pornography. And finally I just want to fell free and be sure that I will have succesfull and happy marriage in my future. I date girls sometimes, I'm rather a sociable person, but I spend much time on learning with my laptop and smartphone and I am sourounded with temptations. How can I win with them. Hope you will help me.
     
  2. OSU32

    OSU32 Guest

    The smallest stimuli seems to produce the chaser effect. Instead of following through with the urge wave, you can change courses by turning to an accountability partner.

    Many of us can't think ourselves better, or think ourselves into change... we had to have access to others that have success and follow the path that works. Willingness without action is just a fantasy bro
     
  3. Piotr

    Piotr Fapstronaut

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    Hi! It's nice to see new Polish fapstronout.

    It's very useful to reduce time spended in front of computer at start and go out as much as possible. Good luck.
     

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