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One of those days

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by potvis22, Dec 28, 2014.

  1. potvis22

    potvis22 Fapstronaut

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    I have some hard times over and over agine ...
    I really do not understand way it happens ... al go's well but always after 3-5 days I relaps and then I fap 2-3 times and then I feel really bad I stop and then it happends agine.

    There are no big problems in my live only that I am extremly bizzy whit school and work ...
    Any yips on how to get to more days whitout replaspsing.

    I tryd it all but once I am in front of my PC it happens over and over all the time.
     
  2. Athelas

    Athelas Fapstronaut

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    It is OK, but use this time for learning. Try to find the exact moment that makes you make a wrong turn and reverse it. That already will move you one step forward, even though you may relapse again, look once more, find this new trigger and eliminate it. Step by step you will get there. At this stage it may not even be important that you last more with each try but that you avoid the trigger that failed you last time.

    Want to put more motivation in it? Each time you relapse, go back the chain of wrong turns and write them down. Also on another paper write why you want to quit. When you relapse again, look at what you have written last time, observe the change, write it down, yet reinforce yourself on your commitment of staying clean. Write down more things that staying of PMO brings into your life and why you want to do it.

    Think about the action you can do to avoid running down your masturbation path and try to make it.

    Be strong, you can do it!
     
  3. Rectify

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