Balls so big, I just feel like I have to unload! Help!

Dont do pmo or you will fall in the same trap and never get out! Cold shower and possibly gf

 

Amen I'm actually look at that stuff to and your absolutely right you got a put stuff in your mind to get it out of there replacement neural plasticity that's the wiring and rewiring of your brain

 

Think of uggo girls.

 

I am getting tired of the nofap "OMG OMG gonna explode after 10 days nofap" crow.
It's called blue balls as someone said and you have this because you sexually stimulate yourself without coming.

 

What's the "porncast" today?
It is a real "pornorific" time!
Semen retention sounds like an X file thing lol, zero science behind it, however stamina, willpower, self determination, Discipline, honest effort, commit to cause. Those are real time human processes which with time will fix your mind.
Hocus pocus blue balls are a self serving load of bullshit.
If the "few shits" wear it I guess.

 

Seemingly unrelated, science we have is an ejaculations worth for a man can take days of normal eating to recover.

 

I am skeptical on this whole blue balls thing. Percentage of ejaculate originating from testicles is around 5%, bulk of cum comes from the prostate. Ejaculation pressure comes from prostate, not testicles. I call bullshit on the causation by NoFap, but i dont rule out correlation.

 

I don’t edge and can experience blue balls. They aren’t fake.

 

Right understanding? You from the concious community???

How do you get to feel fuller, any tips?

 

Well i have to admit, in theory it sounds good, but in practise.. i have relapsed many times.. and my thought patterns changed a lot on different moments.
But i do believe, if you really understand the process of addiction, becoming addiction free becomes more easy.

When i abstain from pmo for a while, i get that full feeling down there.. automatically.. and it sometimes almost feels like the only way to ease that, is to release.
Thats what i meant with enjoying the full feeling.. because i noticed i wanted to get rid of that feeling every time (by releasing) but if you can somehow enjoy, or have peace with this feeling, the journey gets easier. But yeah, im also trying to put the theory into practice and it has not been easy at all to be honest

 

Tantra is essentially edging. Karezza can become edging if you're not careful. Edging is edging whether by a partner or your hand or a toy. Cold shower, ibuprofen, and a long walk. Your body will release via a wet dream if necessary.

 

Okay, can you explain to me the process of addiction so that become free of it can be easy for me as well??

I think the best way to make peace with it is to not be so stuck on the good feeling of being full. If you think like that, you're gonna think about how good it will be to release and then you're just gonna waste your energy and burn yourself out with that fight there until you do relapse. People say forget about your genitals during reboot, I am starting to see that now, I practice the same mindset as I do when I meditate, which is detach and never come back to attaching to it, however you do that, just don't attach to the feeling/idea of being full, because I know that feeling and it's pleasurable which is a perversion in itself I think which will eventually backfire.

 

In my opinion, it is STRESS what you are experiencing.
The thing is probably: You never learned how to deal with stress. You had a "brilliant" coping mechanism: Everytime you felt stress, you fapped.

You have to change your mindset:

1. Ejaculating WILL NOT HELP YOU REDUCE STRESS

Tattoo it on your forehead if it helps. Jk. But you have to realize, that PMO does not help you. If you analyze your past, when did PMO ever truly helped you to relax from stress? And I don't mean just for 1-2 hours. Was your problem EVER SOLVED by ejaculating?

Change your mindset. Do meditation or go for a walk. Talk to your inner child. You have to be the one who reduces your stress, not your dick.

Your balls are only hurting because your brain is STILL thinking "Omg, if I fap, that will solve all my problems and all the emptiness I am feeling inside".
-> No. PMO makes it even worse. Believe me. Don't fall back to Day 1. Keep going, breathe deeply and try to embrace your feelings. Don't run away from them by PMOing.

Good luck
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I agree with you brother. Thanks for sharing this insight.

To the OP, you have obviously received a wide range of responses to your post, and if I were you I would be pretty confused. My opinion is that you practice mindfulness and calmly mediate on what behaviors are healthy for you, your body and your mind. I believe that this practice will yield an answer and that it will be the right answer for you as an individual. I wouldn't take too much stock on any one particular opinion in this thread.

 

Bullshit. When i recently did 25 or 26 days of NoFap mine were at least 30-50% bigger. they were definitely swollen. my girlfriend saw me after a shower and noticed them and commented on how much bigger they were. True story.

 

Thank you for sharing this. This is helpful!

 

How did you make it through this? Just wondering, hell I might go through this.

 

So far I have had nocturnal emissions. It seems my body has a limit to how long it can go and releases at night. Messy but within 1-2 days i feel back to normal. (no chaser effect) I think this is fine because I did not use P or M at all. I can’t control what happens in my thoughts while I sleep.

 

We're your balls still big or went back to normal size?