Why does masturbation and ejaculation make you have uncontrollable anger and make you more violent?

I too threw unreasonably bad fits of anger when things did not go my way. My anger does not go that high especially for seemly silly reasons. I don't punch lampshades anymore. I do believe it was much worse while I heavily PMO'd. I think I messed up brain chemicals and by stopping the PMO; they adjusted to a better ,normal level. I still drink too much and eat crappy foods more then I should. I have 3 months no PMO. I have had acouple longer streaks before. It has noticeably improved me emotionally over these years of battling my addiction to over masturbation. It became my emotional crutch to deal with a poor excuse of a father who never just left my life. He just sucked. And this site has helped me more then anything. Your anger level issues do not surprise me. I think there could be a link. What do you think? Does it improve as you get time under your belt with no pmo? I don't know if you ever got much time with this pmo problem. Good luck though.

 

I think there’s a link between PMO and anger issues. I’ve noticed that I’ve been a lot calmer since getting away from regular PMO and having longer and longer periods of abstinence. I ultimately want to quit PMO all together.

I have had a bad temper over the years but now as I handle frustrations and anxiety in health ways instead of running off to porn I haven’t had a blow up at all this year.

In addition, I had a growing irrational rage against women. This is the number one reason I ended up going to a therapist in January, I could see that I was on my way to becoming out of control.

No more rape porn, BDSM porn, bondage porn, and no more of any type porn because it just leads to the others. I am fully convinced that porn can lead to violence in people and no one can convince me otherwise. I saw it happening in myself and there are plenty of cases of people in prison who were influenced by their porn viewing. It doesn’t happen to everyone but it was certainly happening to me. I wanted to stop before my thoughts became actions.

I think that as you get away from PMO and get into healthy activities as well as learn to handle frustration/anxiety in healthy ways, your anger issues will get better.

(Also, I suggest concentrating on those of us that are giving solid advice and totally ignore those that are getting into name calling. This site is here to help others but unfortunately not everyone is onboard with that game plan.)