30+ days! My advice is this:

That is truly awesome my friend. Being at what I feel like is rock bottom for me in my life due to the pain and suffering my PA has caused me and most importantly the ones I love most, I can say wholeheartedly that I wish I would have battled this demon long ago(with the only stipulation being that I end up with the same wife I have now of course).

I am only beginning to see how my 15 years of PA have made so many detrimental impacts across so many aspects of my life. I am constantly seeing more and more things that I could have done differently or things I might have passed up that could have made big difference in my life. Healthy differences in my life. Thing not even related to sex or relationships.

Good luck to you. You have so much ahead of you and the literal days and weeks you might spend looking at porn in the future might make a huge difference 15 years from now. Take this seriously. You can avoid so much pain and hardship if you act successfully now.

 

PA is short for porn addiction.

My wife and kids made it click! My wife because she was stubborn and/or broken enough to not kick me to the curb one of the many times she stumbled across traces of porn I've left behind and to top it all off, after 9 years of lying to her about my addiction and finally coming clean, SHE found nofap, learned about it and then gave me an ultimatum after passing on nofaps url. That's love and I love this woman. My kids because having them brought a whole new feeling to love. It's love no doubt! It's just different somehow and I don't know that I'm your man to articulate that difference.

What made me stop? Maybe that's what attracted me to your post. I too early on had feelings that my addiction might be changing me, changing my mind. I know now that it was and that it has. I think mine are still reversible but HOLY SHIT would it have saved a ton of hardship for myself and others if I would have done this at your age.

 

PA is "porn addiction"

 

I have her now but we are still working through stuff so hard work and prayer are my prescriptions right now. It's hard to be consistent with everything. Atleast everything but the porn it seems for me right now. I assume this will change with time.

 

I'm still in that phase where it feels like what I really want is to see/do all sorts of stuff, but I am also getting periods where I'm ambling around being sort of cool and friendly, without the bitterness of crazy sex drive. Sure, the girl serving me has great boobs...but I'm ok with talking with the person instead.

 

Hey bro I relapsed after day 19, I was in just bored and before I know I relapsed , can you give me any advice

 

Exactly! You were bored. Learn to be not bored. And well done on 19 days!

 

Thank you bro , I'll try my best to kick this addiction

 

For 2 years I have been struggling with PMO . AND it's high time for me to change my attitude and just stop this pmo. Forever...wt wil be the advice that you give it to me ?

 

I relapsed after 35 days. But I'm ready to go much longer this time. Day 1 starts

 

Can u motivate me a bit ?

 

You're very right about porn just being a cover up for our real problems. We have to solve those problems while staying away from porn as a distraction!

Ps. I knew about Crews but just looked up the JR interview and it's great!