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How often do you have wet dreams?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by ClassyKing, Aug 11, 2018.

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  1. ClassyKing

    ClassyKing Fapstronaut

    I haven't had a wet dream yet. I feel like my early use of porn at a young age made me miss this part of my puberty. I thought after two weeks of no PMO I might have one, but still nothing yet. Would anyone be willing to share there experience with me?
     
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  2. Jason_Tesla_19

    Jason_Tesla_19 Fapstronaut

    Well, our bodies may simply be getting better at retention as we get older. Even about a year ago, I remember temporarily quitting after heavy use, and having two wet dreams in one night, just a few days in. I've also had a wet dream in the past few years while I was still masturbating regularly. I haven't had a wet dream yet during my reboot, which seems weird. I might just be resetting too soon each time, and my body is getting better at abstinence. I thought I would have surely had a wet dream by 17 days my last streak, and I simply gave up and got myself off, which was a mistake.
     
  3. ClassyKing

    ClassyKing Fapstronaut

    I keep lying in bed half awake with hardons thinking "am I about to O" with rapid contractions and humping into my bed. I dont know if that's what it's like to have a wet dream. Its usually when your asleep and dont notice it right?
     
  4. Yes, it happens when you have vivid dreams about sex and then literally ejaculate, can't go unnoticed. I had my first wet dream at 24, after a full six weeks of abstinence. You'll know when you've had one. Frequent ejaculation as in pmo addiction prevents wet dreams.
     
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  5. ClassyKing

    ClassyKing Fapstronaut

    Yeah I think my other problem is I dont usually have vivid dreams. I just turn off like a robot and turn back on when my battery is full.
     
  6. Jason_Tesla_19

    Jason_Tesla_19 Fapstronaut

    You might just not remember you were dreaming most of the time.
     
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  7. hardowner

    hardowner Fapstronaut

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    I've never had a wet dream in my life. Maybe the reboot will be the first time...
     
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  8. ClassyKing

    ClassyKing Fapstronaut

    Hey if you do have one let me know! I'm really interested in them.
     
  9. I have the same problem with dreaming. I notice around day 7 I start to dream. It may not be much, mostly just unorganized images and sort of clips, but I can only assume dreams come back stronger as you go longer.
     
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  10. hardowner

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    That's what she said...
    Hahahahahaha! :D
    Of course I will... :emoji_thumbsup:
     
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  11. I’ve never had one in my life either. Pretty sure my body is like “this dude is gonna take care of it himself...just wait for it.”

    Seriously. Pretty sure we’ve all ejaculated more than generations of the past all put together. Our body has no need for it....yet.
     
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  12. dbp2252

    dbp2252 Fapstronaut

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    In this no pmo 87 days I had like 5 of them first came at 27days then 60 and last three in this last 7 days ! Fucking I am unable to control them ! The early ones were sex dreams but not in a pornographic way but the one came today was me fapping the old time and not to porn just like that ! And somehow i consciously approved that and the next moment I came ! And I woke up ! This is getting weirder !
     
  13. ClassyKing

    ClassyKing Fapstronaut

    Maybe your body adapted since you stopped masturbating. It was so use to you masturbating all the time that your body wasn't liking how it can't find relief. Now it does it while your sleeping.
     
  14. dbp2252

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    Any way we can control them ? I just Dont want that to hamper any progress I had done !
     
  15. Fix_It_Mate

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    I had my first at age 19 after about four weeks of no masturbation.

    Now I seem to get two of them spread out over about three nights, then I go around ten days without them and it repeats.

    Don't be sad if you don't get them. If you remember the dream, you get the terrible feeling that you've relapsed and then you have disgusting wet underpants and bed sheets to deal with.
     
  16. bobbiebob

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    Well no worries buddy I was like you too, but way worse. I discovered m without p since I was 7ish and I kept doing it with so many days off (I'm 14, just in case),and I wasn't really addicted. But sadly I'm addicted now in my current situation tho. And I'm currently on 3 month streak and got so many sexual dreams, but only one of them were wet dream. It was on 2 month-ish, don't lose hope buddy!
     
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  17. realliferealman

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    Today I is my Day 46,wake up with my pants wet..The dream is in my Point Of View,which very very real,I feel like a real sex experience.In the dream,the girl and I have a very strong eye contact for 5 minutes I think,then she come to me slowly,seat on my lap,we kiss passionately.After a quit while,I still remember,I have a feeling of "Happiness" for quite a while (this time I still haven't wake up).When I wake up and see my pants wet,then only I remember this part of the dream I had..Never had this experience in 28 years of my life and it happen in my 1st attempt of Nofap journey in 46 days
     
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  18. I never had a really wet dream. Sometimes my dick head is a bit wet, but not really a wet dream. I started young with porn and masturbation, so I understand why I hadn't a wet dream during my puberty.
     
  19. snighder

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    After starting NoFap I had my first Wet Dream on 10th day, it was so real. It felt like I was having sex with real girl and also had O but I woke up and found out it was just a dream and I am wet
     
  20. WhoCares101

    WhoCares101 Fapstronaut

    I have had 2 since starting nofap. Never had any others in my life, so it was a real shock when it happened at first, felt like a 33 year old teenager freaking out. The first one I was alone and was dreaming I was watching myself watch porn, which was weird. I felt like shit after, was almost crying to my girlfriend because I yet to reach an O while having sex with her because of my porn issues, all she knows about. The second was again me dreaming about watching but I was in bed with my girlfriend, which made feel even more like shit, it was 2 months later and I had started to O with my girlfriend but I did feel like shit.

    But in my case the wetdreams scare me because my girlfriend has 2 kids, the youngest is 4 and she will about once or twice a week try to get into bed with us in ta he middle of the night after a bad dream. It scares me for obvious reasons, I would not be able to life with myself if she jumped in bed with us if I had a wetdream. Luckily I am a light sleeper so I always wake up when she does climb into bed, so I just stay awake until she falls asleep, but I worry that won't always be the case.

    Anyway, yeah it was weird since I never had one as a teenager and was super pissed I had to change sheets into he middle of the night.
     
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