A possible solution to WETDREAMS.

Yes wetdreams happen when you are between the dream and awake state. It happens often when you wake up early and go to sleep again.

Your subconscious wants you to cum. That's why it's hard to resist because your subconscious mind don't have any "consequence think" . It just wants the quick pleasure.

You can force yourself to wake up though. But you have to be scared for your life for this to work and have a strong enough will.

I have another method that is almost 100% successful at avoiding wetdreams (and has helped me reaching 200+ days without orgasm) but it is rather controversial.

 

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So I take semen retention extremely serious. I have not orgasmed in all of 2018. And I haven't watched porn since mid 2017.

You get wetdreams because your subconscious mind wonders why you don't seek to have sex. Having wetdreams is basically your subconscious signaling to you "hey I exist go find a girl".

This is the secret:
The method I used (which works better than forcing yourself to awake) was that I in the beginning of 2018 edged one time first week while imagining I was having sex. (without coming ofcourse) This is the best way because you trick your body to think that it has had sex and you will not experience wetdreams at all!

Then I repeated the same thing but with two weeks apart. Then 3 weeks. Then 4 weeks etc etc. Now it has gone 65 days since I edged last time and I have not even had a single sexual dream.

The trick is to slowly get your body used to it. Next year for example I'm planning to edge no more than once every quarter. (4 times total 2019) It's not perfect I know but it's sure a hell of alot better than ejaculating in your sleep every week.

I hope you found this useful. Good luck in your semen retention journey everyone!

 

I've never had a daytime or nocturnal emission in my life, but I haven't been abstinent long enough. I do not believe wet dreams occur due to our "subconscious mind wonders why you don't seek to have sex". I believe it is more a function of our bodies requiring to get rid of excess sexual fluid production, there is only so much fluid the prostate/seminal vesicles/testicles can hold. Once they reach maximum capacity, it has to get rid of it somehow, hence the wet dream. I do believe that your method works, but it has more to do with pre-cum being formed from edging and taking out some of the pressure from the prostate. Hope that makes sense

 

Sorry but you are simply wrong. But you can believe what you want if it helps you.

 

It's not really helpful to just say someone is wrong, you should really try to back it up or point out the evidence. You're right, I only spoke of 1 cause for wet dreams. The other is orgasmic dreams during REM sleep.

Check out this article:
http://www.articlesfactory.com/articles/health/what-specifically-causes-nocturnal-emissions.html

This is exactly what I was talking about:
According to research, it is found that a man needs to ejaculate from time to time even when he is not sexually active. This condition usually occurs after reaching the maximum holding capacity of semen in the body of person. It can be also described as a natural way to release sexual tension. Normal rate of wet dreams will not produce any harm to the body of person. Problems due to night emission will cease when a male has ejaculation either through masturbation or sex with his partner.

 

You're going to put your prostate under a lot of strain by doing that. I would not recommend it. You can't go half way.. you either stop or your get into a regular cycle of release. Mentally you're spinning wheels anyway if you're visualizing sex.. what's the point? Just daming up the river is not going to teach you much - sex begins and ends in the mind.

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I have stopped wet dreams on numerous occasions, where I become aware in the dream state that sexual imagery and fantasy is being projected on the mind and force it to stop. Funnily enough I realized that I'm able to stop sneezing when I'm awake if I wish too using the same mental technique - no physical restraint is used, just turning away at the peak of the need to sneeze sensation. It was quite unexpected the first time it happened.

On my first 6+ month celibate streak I had an involuntary wet dream. No sexual imagery at all. I was in deep sleep and all of a sudden I become aware that my body is ejaculating. There was no pleasure. And the ejaculate was brown. Obviously the body needed to release what was clearly a stagnant build up, caused by some bleeding somewhere, most likely from the prostate being under too much strain.

 

That's not true. The body recycles semen it does not need to ejaculate to do it.

 

You don't put your prostate under alot of strain. To clarify: I don't edge to when I'm about to cum and then get an orgasm without cum. I jerk off for a while and then I'm done.

If you have brown cum then there might be some medical issue. You should go check that.

 

"According to research" Why do you trust this site when you don't trust the sites that tell you it's harmless to masturbate often? You are coping because you can't handle your problem with wetdreams.

 

@Koldhand, look I'm not attacking you, just saying you may want to educate yourself before attacking me. You're correct, the body does "recycle" semen. But, semen is made of multiple components (sperm from the testicles, seminal fluid which makes of ~70% of semen which comes from the seminal vesicles, and prostatic fluid from the prostate). At some point it can't reabsorb or "recycle" as quick as it can produce all these things. Therefore leading to an involuntary emission (day or night) without orgasm. Involuntary emissions can happen during dreams also, but that wasn't the point I was making.

Masturbation is harmless when it's not excessive and when there is no addiction involved. The point of No NoFAP or No PMO is to get rid of addiction from porn. And you are being to quick to attack me again, please see my previous post stating:

It's good to have a respectful and friendly argument. It's also healthy

 

You can believe what you want. This part of the forum is about semen retention and not porn addiction. You still don't reply to my question about the research. But it doesn't matter it's obvious we have different views on the subject. I don't feel like having an argument.

 

Oh man, I hate it when someone starts a post telling someone to educate themselves. Come and take a step down off your high horse with your big words and realise that nobody knows shit and we're all just pulling lots of information together to guess at something that makes sense to us.

This forum is for people to offer advice, not truths. The most qualified sperm expert only has a narrow insight into the truth.

 

@Koldhand yes I believe in finding the truth, the facts, so I do believe in that.

What's your question about the research?

Is this it?
"According to research" Why do you trust this site when you don't trust the sites that tell you it's harmless to masturbate often?

I'm a bit confused by this question. "According to research" was a quote from the article.
You're saying I don't trust the sites that tell you it's harmless to masturbate often? I never said this. I do believe it's harmful to masturbate too much and when addiction is involved. But a healthy amount of masturbation is fine (Once you've completed a reboot).

@sayonaraPMO you're right, I was just defending myself from this:

Getting off the horse...