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Is it normal for a flatline to be this long?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by oaty, Sep 30, 2018.

How long did your flatline last?

  1. less than 2 weeks

    1 vote(s)
    6.7%
  2. 2-4 weeks

    3 vote(s)
    20.0%
  3. 4-6 weeks

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  4. 2-3 months

    5 vote(s)
    33.3%
  5. 3-6 months

    2 vote(s)
    13.3%
  6. 6-12 months

    2 vote(s)
    13.3%
  7. over a year

    2 vote(s)
    13.3%
  1. oaty

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    I would like to share my nofap experience and ask a couple questions.

    Starting nofap is one of the best things i ever did. I'm on day 33 now. I been feeling more energetic, happier and free. No more constant feeling of shame and guilt, no more dark cloud hanging over my head. I feel like i freed myself from prison and hope that I will keep up my streak for as long as I live.

    My 33 day streak has so far been easy........but that's because i have been flatlining!
    When I say flatline i don't mean that i been feeling low, depressed or anxious. What I mean is that I had little to zero libido (which is why its been easy for me...no urges).
    So my first question is: is it normal for me to be flatlining for 33 days? Will my libido increase eventually?

    Also I haven't been getting any morning wood yet or any strong erections at random times. If I start having sexual thoughts (which i try not to do), I would get erections but they would be 90% strong at most. I understand this may be linked to my flatline.
    So my second question is again: Will I start getting morning wood and strong erections eventually?

    I also want to mention that I'm doing daily reverse kegels to try to combat PE. I dont think this is causing my flatline but is it possible that its causing weak/lack of erections?

    Thanks for reading. I appreciate any answers, thoughts, opinions, experiences etc.
     
    Last edited: Jan 29, 2019
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  2. Contentful T

    Contentful T Fapstronaut

    A flatline is like an overweight possum crawling on your chest and latching on until you step it up a notch and say enough is enough.

    I don't tolerate fat possums on my chest.
     
  3. oaty

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    How can I 'step it up a notch'?
     
  4. Theworthywait

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    Hey i have the exact same problem as you. I'm 23 years old and have been PMO several times a day since i was 11. I'm just trying to ride with the wave/flatline and just go along with it. I'm still hoping that my morning wood will come soon. Nothing has happened down there just yet, but i'm positive that my health and penis can get healthier the more i just wait.

    So to sum it up. Question 1: I have been flatlining since day 10, i have no libido, my dick is dead, still no morning wood. I can't speak for the entire community, but from what I'VE seen, flatlining can range from 2 weeks up to 2 years. I don't know how severe your situation is. But i have PIED and i'm quite sure (please do not see this as demotivating to you, i'm just trying to give you the tools, and perhaps some patience) that i need more than 90 days to recover.

    About question 2: I'm in the same boat as you, i'm sure that my morning wood will come sooner or later. I'm rooting for you, you have a done a great job so far by abstaining from it. We are getting closer and closer, that is the most important thing. Good luck!
     
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  5. Anonymous86

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    How would you describe your 'dead dick'? Small, shrunken, and numb (like mine) or completely different? Just trying to gain insight here, thank you.
     
  6. oaty

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    Thanks for your detailed reply, answers and and encouragement. I really appreciate it. Im rooting for you too and hope that we will both keep up the streak forever.
    Im just as positive as you are that our penises will get healthier eventually. We just need to be patient.

    I acknowledge that it may take longer than 90 days. The first 90 days is just the first step, its just the foundation for our journey of recovery. However I must say that 'upto 2 years' is an awfully long time. I hope it wont take that long.
    I do not have PIED, thank God but I do suffer from PE which is not addressed much on this site. When you say you have PIED does that mean you can't get an erection at all? Even when having sexual thoughts?

    I also want to say that you're doing a great job too. We both have similar days of NoFap streak (you're a few days ahead of me) and it seems like we're both on the same boat. It would be nice if we can keep in touch and update each other on our experiences. Like letting each other know when our libido starts to appear and if our morning wood comes out of hiding etc.
     
    Last edited: Jan 29, 2019
  7. Theworthywait

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    Yes, it's like i don't feel anything down there anymore. It's exactly how you would describe it, just numb. Although it tends to grow to normal size if i hydrate myself properly. Other than that, just numb.

    I get hard when i masturbate to porn, and to some extent when i fantasize.. although the fantasizing is pretty much as dirty as porn is. When real connection and touching comes to play from a real girl, i have not been able to get fully erected. That's my goal for now, to feel the exact same thing as i did the first time i watched porn, where you feel the energy just rising up. Now, my view of sex is just fucked up because of all the porn. I do feel much better now when i have abstained from it. Now the last couple of days the withdrawal symptoms has begun to present itself, the headaches and tiredness is HUGELY noticeable. So heads up to you guys if you feel the same (of course, every recovery is not the same), just don't give in to that shit you've been working so hard on to let go of.

    Thank you. I PROMISE i will update you if something new comes up, whether good or bad. Hopefully, we'll start seeing some more improvements.
     
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  8. Anonymous86

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    @Theworthywait, is your penis soft and rubbery as well? Mine is similar. I know that it's kind of a weird question, but I am curious because I have this symptom. Thanks.
     
  9. oaty

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    I hope that you will reach your goal and that your withdrawals wont last long.
    As for me, there hasn't been any changes yet but I'll keep you updated on anything new.
     
  10. Ezpz

    Ezpz Fapstronaut

    You have a flat line without the depression or anxiety or withdrawal effects? You're living the dream man, you have it easy.

    I've been flat lining for about 180 days of my reboot so far with every withdrawal effect you could think of
     
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  11. oaty

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    My flat line only consists of lack of libido and lack of strong erections. I understand where you're coming from by saying that I have it easy (which I mentioned in my original post) but its not natural for a guy to live his life without a libido. I just want to be back to normal and get my libido and morning wood back. I know that this will make my nofap journey much more difficult but it will also mean that I am recovering. I'm ready to face the challenge.

    Im sorry to hear about your withdrawals. Stay strong and keep fighting, you're doing really well no matter what.
    By the way you probably heard this hundreds of times but have you tried eating healthy and regularly doing exercises? If not, I believe it can cure many of your problems.
     
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  12. Ezpz

    Ezpz Fapstronaut

    Just make sure you give it enough time before you lose hope, you still have many months of recovery to go so try to accept it as part of the journey and have faith that your libido will return
     
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  13. oaty

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    Thats what I'm doing. Just being patient and riding the wave hoping for changes. Thanks for your support.
     
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  14. Ifatfirstyoudont

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    There is a lot of good stuff here in this thread, I have realized I have been flatlining for years and I hope I recover some sort of erection and libido, as you say it would be harder but a sign of recovery
     
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  15. Ezpz

    Ezpz Fapstronaut

    What symptoms did you have before starting the nofap journey? I am always curious to see if other people had similar symptoms to me
     
  16. Ifatfirstyoudont

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    I had years of absolutes no interest in my wife and would look at porn daily. It got to the point where I could find nothing on any site that would arouse me.. I was masturbating just out of habit which I now realize was porn addiction. Other than that I’m not sure what was a symptom was from porn addiction or my anxiety and depression I had. I am on meds for anxiety.
     

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