How to cure oneitis?

Patience. As with all of us, REBOOT first... for 100+ days. No healthy thing can come from shifting PMO addiction into ("concept-of")relationship-co-dependency before gaining inner stability. Appearances notwithstanding, HS romance is likely premature anyway; we're often better off getting through our teens by focusing on our _own_ inner development.

Best of success!

 

Another PUA fellow member haha! Look up toddvdating on youtube he seems to be cool.

 

I do kind of struggle with oneitis. It used to be really bad but it's toned down. What I am doing right now is just being paitent and telling myself "time will come but right now is not the time." Also you stated:

Do you use social media? If you do, I suggest logging off for a couple of weeks, seeing other people's lives threatens your happiness.

 

Good

 

I know how you feel man, sadly the best I can say is keep doing what you are doing when you see the opportunity to ask a girl out. Take it.

 

It sucks, it really does. I've been in this position and the best you can do is not to pays attention to them.

 

Build your life and quit putting pussy/females on a pedestal. If you base your happiness dependent on a girlfriend, you'll never be happy. Happiness is your own responsibility.

 

I used to have oneitits as thaey call it now back in my day they just called it a crush . Back then I didn't have something I have now self esteem and sense of self I DONT THINK ABOUT WOMEN THAT I AM NOT IN A REALTIONSHIP WITH. I have a life and if there not apart of it then I don't waste my time with what ifs .

 

Become the kind of person you would want for a ltr. The inner vision manifests in the material world with focus and discipline. Develop and utilize the traits and behaviors that you want in a partner. Also, try to get out of your own head (ego), something we are all guilty of to some degree. When you free up space in your brain by by shrinking the ego, it makes room for another to fit there with you. Good luck!