Fapping to your Gf

Had the same issue that you have about an year ago. Had a Gf for a couple months during my rebooting process and I thought that MO'ing was just alright and it was not going to do anything. The next day I was watching P on my cellphone. But it can work differently on you.
However, I would not recommend MO'ing to your Gf during the reboot. Sex, well, some guys stop it, others don't, or just after 1/3 of the process they start it. It depends.
But, as I said, I would not recommend it.
Cheers and be strong.

 

I think the big problem with MO is that it's a solitary activity. Our sexual faculties are clearly meant for actual intercourse. (I mean, look at your penis. That thing makes no sense unless there's such a thing as a vagina in this world.)

So even if it's to your girlfriend, and even if she's given you permission, masturbating to thoughts or pictures of your girlfriend is still just you, alone, with your dick in your hand, short-circuiting your biology to get a dosage of drugs.

It's great to be attracted to your girlfriend, but if you really love her, I don't think it makes sense to cut her out of the loop. And there are lots of ways to show her you love her without endangering your reboot. Do some research and plan a great date; go out of your way to pick her up from work; make some memories you'll take to your deathbed!

Just my two cents.

 

Had a girlfriend once, fapped to her a lot , both while she was in the room and from pictures. Often times, I would have to finish and I didn't know what the problem was... now I know!