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Excessive Erection

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Odigi13, Oct 6, 2018.

  1. Odigi13

    Odigi13 Fapstronaut

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    Hey Everybody, i've been having this problem since i stopped fapping am getting erection at anytime anywhere whether talking to girls to when am looking at them, today i was sitting in the metro and i saw two young girls and i had a boner someone help me please it is getting me questionning and am feeling like it's because of not watching porn.
     
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  2. Sayonara

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    Hey @Odigi13, there's a few points to address here. One is, is quitting PMO causing more erections? The answer is probably - porn makes us numb to normal sexual cues and makes us aim for more extreme sexual scenarios. So quitting porn will allow your brain to reconnect with simpler turn ons.

    The second point is Am I sick in the head for getting a boner when I saw two young girls? The answer is no. Boners are normal, they are great, they show your sexually healthy. When we were cavemen, age of consent really wouldn't have been a thing, but we're living in a more civilised society now. If you start acting out on unhealthy scenarios, like masturbating to young girls, or approaching them, then you're in shittown, but you can't help what your body does naturally, and you shouldn't beat yourself up about it.

    So in summary, don't panic. Make sure you're not feeding unhealthy thoughts, but don't freak out when things fly into your head. Just move past them calmly. You got this.
     
  3. Odigi13

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    thank you for taking your time to tell me this
     
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  4. overclocked

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    Very uncommon. I'm actually a bit jealous. When I quit my dick was basically out of order for a very long time
     
  5. lol just put it up in the waistband and you will be fine.
     
  6. Coolyorky

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    Hahaha me too. Have you got pied? I’m on day 35 hard mode and I think things are improving
     
  7. Sher_rock

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    Shit. I'm on day 8 cause of Pied and my dick is dead
     
  8. Meditation Monk

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    lol, well then, get back on the right track again.
     
  9. Meditation Monk

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    Oh and also, I feel nocturnal for some reason. Like somewhat wet for the moment. I wonder if I will have another lucid dream tonight. God only knows.
     
  10. Coolyorky

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    I’m on day 35. Erections thinking about regular girls/ex’s coming back. Stick with it
     
  11. Meditation Monk

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    Yup. I had another lucid dream last night. lol. I was a bit worried about it in the end but hey, I liked it. I like my dreams, haha.
     
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  12. SanSolo

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    My experience was much like yours. Not so much now because I'm kinda old. But when I did abstinence as a young man, YEOW! It was like being 13 years old again. Anything got me excited, boners 10-15 times a day.
     
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  13. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Get a holster for that thing. Concealed Carry.
     
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  14. Well on the bright side, it's working. I will say after a time of abstinence it will be very sensitive for a while but it will calm in time.
     
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  15. Meditation Monk

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    Haha, ya for sure man. Keep it up.
     
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  16. pesty100

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    Keep up the good work
     
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  17. overclocked

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    I had had it but anymore thanks to nofap. It took 2 years or so and I'm still a bit numb.
     
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