The journey to battle prone masturbation, help needed

I have porn induced erectile dysfunction, which I discovered trying to lose my virginity.

What I’m doing is staying away from any kind of pornography, and masturbation, even from touching myself there. This is what most people do.

You reach certain goals of time like 30 days, 90 days etc, once I’ve passed maybe 60-90 days I want to attempt getting a girl and losing my virginity. That’s the jist of it.

 

I had that problem when I was younger. It will go away. I am living proof. It will take a hard reboot though. At least 90 day's maybe more. I now have no ed very confident in that area. It will go away a d it will be worth it. You have to figure it out though. Good luck

 

Former prone masturbator here man. There are more of us than you think. You can heal. Start your reboot today man and stay strong. Don't go back because it is a very dangerous form of masturbation because it is not like sex at all. Your body needs to rewire itself and regain sensitivity. Good luck!

 

I also used to fap that way too and now my penis is very numb no sensation at all and am still a virgin I don't even think I can cum with a girl I haven't try it yet but my penis has changed and discolored make me so depressed that I have even contemporated suicidal before cos my penis was weird and firm in flaccid, am hoping it will get better so that I can be in a relationship am 22 and I know it weird to be a virgin at this age and I sometimes pretend as if am not and am such a loser ,if not porn I wouldn't have no any thing like masturbation cos I start at 19 but did it in a dangerous way

 

I started off following the plan on healthy strokes.com however, if I could do it again I would do a 90 day hardmode reboot like we see here. No PMO 90 days. You have to unlearn all that negative conditioning you've put your body through. Sadly I believe it takes longer for us to heal because not only were we watching porn, we coupled it with prone which to my knowledge is the worst kind of masturbation. Keep it up man go the full 90 days you will be a new man!

 

You will get better if you do what you need to do. Many pepole were in exact same position as you. Things could be worse man you could have an std or aids. Get a little better each day and get some good friends set goals

 

Look, being virgin is not weird at all at that age. I am 21, and also virgin. Its just that people has made a stupid 'standard' that makes it feel like it is bad to be virgin, but in fact is not bad at all. If anything it can also be more special when doing it with the partner one feel comfort with.

Mate, stay strong. there will be depressing moments and days, but let them pass and be in a attitude that can be healthy for you.

 

U said I could get std or aids ?sure,like how?

 

I'm just saying there are worse thing's than being a virgin, like having aids.

 

Damn I totally understand.
And I am a virgin as well, and in my honest opinion it is okay to be.
That man that told you about that about being virgin and all is not true! You will have a sex life, we both will be good men in this world.
We will fall in pain at times.

And about the heartbreaking story, I am soo sorry to hear that.
I don't know how to support you in that matter, other than saying I am here for you.

I was about 10 or 11 years old when I started with Porn and till this day it still haunts me.
I want you and me to get better and abstain porn.
To be strong
To be warriors

We will kill that poison that makes us depressed or feel bad or guilt over our lives.

We will be good

This is our choice

 

Thank you man for your support
I hope one day we will be fine and beat this thing, it is very hard but we have to be strong
I never new there was something like this in this world as u reach puberty like I wouldn't have engaged myself in .only God is our helper

 

Man its no problem!
I can already see the bright future for us, I can feel it. It is hard, but we are doing the right thing, just never give up and not to get depressed over it - even in tough times.
I am happy because I have support by the close once, this forum and you.

May God bless us!

 

Can you guyx try this techniques and see whether it will help.
Get yourself a book and and challenge yourself by marking every week not everyday dat is from(Monday to Sunday) the successful week u never fap has to be mark(correct sign) and unsuccessfully week should be mark (wrong sign) then compare and try to make progress by not faping in most week to challenge yourself use this as private game and see what will happen

 

I can indeed try,
I mark every regretful PMO on my calender, so this should be kinda easy for me to note,