1st time sex with a prostitute

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Natoski_, Oct 10, 2018.

  1. Natoski_

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    I have my 1st sex with a prostitute from the urge of how it feels when having real sex not masturbation ....tell me what I did today is wrong or not
     
  2. If you are doing hard mode, you don't do O. So going to a prostitute is not the right way to completely reboot in my opinion. It is a substitute for P. Only love with a partner brings you more value in life.
     
  3. 4DCreator

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    Did you at least use a condom? Of course, it is bad. Very bad. You know how many wealthy men become wrecks by using their possession for prostitutes? Do you love her? Or did you just take her as female "body parts" where you did what you needed to do because of your urges? To pay for a prostitute is much worse then fapping into your hand, as you can get any sort of disease even with a condom. To pay for prostitute you will never heal your view of women as a material you can pay for. Good luck with your healing. I would go completely cold turkey and work on huge self-development.
     
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  4. 4DCreator

    4DCreator Fapstronaut

    To pay for a prostitute is the worst ever depreciation of a woman for personal pleasure. The main goal of nofap is to get a healthy brain and be a proud man who can love a woman deeply and not take her as a sex object!
     
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  5. Powerous

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    agree
     
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  6. phwrancesco

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    if you are like 17 to 20-21... you could wait.

    if you are more then 23-24 is a good thing.

    Better lose your virginity to a prostitute then being virgin in your late 20's
     
  7. Better to die a virgin than think that sex is the be all and end all to the point where you are worried if you are a good person because you had sex with a prostitute
     
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  8. phwrancesco

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    Probably you say this because you are a virgin man. Wake up.

    I was worried after the first time i had sex and she wasn't even a prostitute.

    That's life man.
     
  9. No, definitely not a virgin. But I have plenty of guilt about sex, and I whilst I don't feel that sex is a "wonderous special thing", I also don't feel that there is anything wrong with being a virgin.
     
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  10. phwrancesco

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    i mean, sex is not perfect. Never.

    And can also be a huge problem for a lot of people who for some reason can't get rid of their virginity, it's enough to read a couple of posts about it to realize that.

    So what's wrong to get some help with a prostitute? (to be clear, i never had sex with prostitutes or escorts)
     
  11. Personally, I have nothing against paying for sex, but @Natoski_ is asking if we feel it's okay, so he may feel unsure of himself, I say it's only a problem if he feels it's a problem.
     
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  12. Roycroppa

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    I don’t think it’s wrong at all. There are obvious differences to a prositite and a girlfriend. I’ve been with prositites before, and I haven’t regretted it. But each to their own
     
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  13. It depends on your goals and where you are coming from. We can all say it's bad, but what do you really want? If you want a good relationship with a women, then it might be bad because you can get addicted to getting prostitutes and not search out a relationship with a women and waste time or get a disease. If you want to save money yeah it's bad. It's your life though I dont care what you do. Just be smart.
     
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  14. Fap 5 Freddy

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    patently immature and childish thing to say
     
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  15. Agreed
     
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  16. You need to develop a mind of your own.
    It is of course wrong to pay to have sex with a person who does not want to have sex with you. PMO is bad, primarily because of what it does to you - but imagine if you were allowing yourself to be taken by some random anonymous man in return for some money. This is not a good thing to be involved with.
     
  17. Rehab101

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    I would hate myself if I never get to experience sex in my whole life. Only person can answer that is yourself. Why did you do it? Curiosity, too horny, virginity, jealousy, etc?

    Always practice safe sex whatever you do though.
     
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  18. hardowner

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    You will find out eventually. I lost my virginity to a prostitute when I was totally drunk. For me it was bad. You are a different person...
     
  19. Arghy

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    It s often really bad.

    Try to do not give money to procurers, some girls are true slaves and dont touch money.
    In this case, you will just spread crime like a cancer.

    And use always condoms :p

    Beside that , dont feel guilty and have fun :)
     
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  20. DoGoodStayClean

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    Everything you do will stay a memory of yours. Do you want to be married and then, when you look at your wife, remember what you did?
     

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