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Slept with a prostitute today do you think I should reset my counter?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by mrlaw, Jan 15, 2015.

  1. Jan 15, 2015 #1
    mrlaw

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    [NSFW]Okay some of you guys know I went back to college last year. Well today I was about to leave when I spotted this hot girl in front of him. Ugh she had ASS for days!!!!
    She kindly open the door to let me out. Honestly it's been YEARS since I last try to chat up a girl in the west. You see I gave up on women in west a long time ago but today I just couldnt let her go without at least knowing her name. She told me but I can't remember. My mind was just too damn focus on that nice big ass on her. She was italian and was studying English. When i saw her i actually though she was spanish. Anyway I told her I will be seeing her again. I got home and I find i couldnt take my mind of her or her nice big ass in this case. The trigger was just too damn much! I was shaking. It's been 7days since I last fapped. My body was hot. I could feel all the build in energy running through me, begging to be released. I finally reached the point of no return. It was either PMO or going to go see a prostitute. Well I chosen the later. At least I'm sleeping with a REAL woman. Isn't that what stopping PMO is about??? Anyway I quickly did some research I find one with a nice big ass. No cut the story short,i had great time with her. Btw she was very surprised when she saw the amount that came out of my little man :D[/NSFW]

    Buy hey my counter is still intact :) I did not PMO!
     
    mrlaw, Jan 15, 2015
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  2. Jan 15, 2015 #2
    BackcountryCamping

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    This is very , VERY triggering for some! The whole post should have a NSFW code on it. Please be careful and think of others that may not be as strong as you.
     
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  3. Jan 16, 2015 #3
    mrlaw

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    Okay done that. BTW do you think I should reset? Why and why not.
     
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  4. Jan 16, 2015 #4
    Pine River

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    No, I don't think you should reset because it wasn't masturbation or watching porn.

    HOWEVER: by visiting a prostitute you are still spending money on maintaining the sex industry, just as much (if not more so) as if you'd paid to download porn or bought a porn magazine.

    Also, you are using a woman purely for gratification just as much as if you'd masturbated over porn.

    Using prostitutes to avoid PMO is completely against the spirit of NoFap IMO.
     
    Pine River, Jan 16, 2015
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  5. Jan 17, 2015 #5
    Aryan

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    No you should not reset it.But be careful to choose the words while posting.Its not a problem for me but those who are in early days of their streak may find this as a trigger.
     
    Aryan, Jan 17, 2015
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  6. Jan 17, 2015 #6
    mrlaw

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    "No, I don't think you should reset because it wasn't masturbation or watching porn"
    I agree. My counter is still intact.

    'Also, you are using a woman purely for gratification just as much as if you'd masturbated over porn".

    I'd rather pay to them leave than sit and pretend to like the crap that comes out from their mouth!

    BTW are you practising HARD MODE?
     
    mrlaw, Jan 17, 2015
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  7. Jan 17, 2015 #7
    mrlaw

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    Okay thanks.
     
    mrlaw, Jan 17, 2015
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  8. Jan 17, 2015 #8
    Nofapnoo

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    Dude,it doesn't fucking matter if you reset it or not!

    The fact is that you have released your sperms and it can not be changed. You need to focus on the future! Are you going to have prostitute when your urges come up someday in the future? That's the question that matters.

    Personally, I think getting prostitute is a fucked up idea. You quit PMO for a healthy sex life, and a healthy life-style overall. Do you think prostitute is a part of it?
     
    Nofapnoo, Jan 17, 2015
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  9. Jan 18, 2015 #9
    mrlaw

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    Yes! It's a great solution for SINGLE guys.

    And there are/will be times when extreme strong urges will come their/your way...so its either going back to PMO or deciding having sex with a real woman aka visiting a prositute!
     
    mrlaw, Jan 18, 2015
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