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Meeting new people

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by InvestingGuy, Oct 21, 2018.

  1. InvestingGuy

    InvestingGuy Fapstronaut

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    Hi I live in this city that consists of mostly South Asians. I'm a very social person and a lot of girls find me attractive. But throughout University all of my classes didn't have that many females and even if they did,they were either fobs or ugly. For this reason I went to clubs alot and talked to random girls on the street. I have been on dates with random girls I met on the street but they were all in the city that I went to University,not the city I live in right now. I specified the details above because my question is how do I meet new girls and I know the answer is going to be go to clubs/bars, use tinder, go to malls. I talk to girls at clubs in this city and I noticed that they are rude to me and all the other guys. We always complain about this. I match up with 40-50 girls on tinder and only 2-3 reply. And the way that these girls talk,they think they are the shit. I always see girls in this city bossing their husbands around. Also most of the girls here have below average bodies. I know some one is going to say move to another city but my parents live here and I'm really close to them. I don't want to be needy and these girls think random guys who approach them are creeps. Any comments on this?
     
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  2. torrace

    torrace Fapstronaut

    You could try meeting people with common interests via meetup.com
     
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  3. InvestingGuy

    InvestingGuy Fapstronaut

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  4. torrace

    torrace Fapstronaut

    Yes! Through the app I did the following things:
    • Learnt sport climbing
    • Learnt kayaking
    • Went for art jamming sessions (painting session)
    • Tried speed dating
    • Went overseas for white water rafting
    • Met my wife
     
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  5. InvestingGuy

    InvestingGuy Fapstronaut

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    Sounds fun, I'll give it a shot. How was kayaking?
     
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  6. torrace

    torrace Fapstronaut

    Kayaking was tiring but depending on where you kayak, the view can be great! Do wear waterproof shoes, bring a water bottle and environment friendly sunblock.
     
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  7. InvestingGuy

    InvestingGuy Fapstronaut

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    Nice, I've been kayaking in a lake surrounded by a forest,it's absolutely beautiful.
     
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  8. SCANBE

    SCANBE Fapstronaut

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    I started kayaking to rebuild my upper muscles while recovering from a car accident. I immediately fell in love and the following summer I continued for the enjoyment. It helped bring my physical strength beyond the point I was before the accident.

    Can't wait to continue next summer!
     
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  9. Maybe if you had a better attitude things will go better for you.
     
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