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Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by godsbelovedson93, Nov 5, 2018.

  1. godsbelovedson93

    godsbelovedson93 Fapstronaut

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    i just wanna cry guys... just kidding but I’m starting to get sad because I have no one to talk to. I have social anxiety and it’s cured a bit but I still am cautious about approaching people or really getting close to them. But this sucks man , Idk just venting but I tell you what it’s better to be alone , than to be ashamed and miserable due to pmo. Pray for me guys, pray the universe gives that extra push or sends me some companions
     
  2. Air0

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    Dude I totally understand u. Maybe think up of some goals. I can't type much but tomorrow we can come up with some plans. Give it some time I hope things go well.
     
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  3. godsbelovedson93

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    Cool sounds good man. I’m going to give it a shot. Message me if anything
     
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  4. nef

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    what are your music beliefs ?
     
  5. I don't think you need to be ashamed anymore with 33 days behind you. I think you've showed that you can behave better. Have you thought of joining some kind of club, then you can be with other people but also be occupied by some activity to keep you're mind off your anxiety.
     
  6. youve made it 33 days thats no small feat, be proud of yourself and look forward to when you do have friends, right now your main focus is getting better, you have lots of friends on here you can talk to including me. Let having friends be your motivation to get better, look at it as something you have to earn.
     
  7. Sefz33

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    Keep up the fight and be strong bro. Will pray for you.
     
  8. godsbelovedson93

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    I listen only to positive music... it doesn’t matter the genre as long as it’s positive
     
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  9. godsbelovedson93

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    I like that idea man I’ve been thinking about it just tryna figure out where that could be
     
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  10. Towards Redemption

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    Well done persevering for 33 days so far, that's great! Imagine if you hadn't done that, things would only be worse. You should be proud, you're proving that you have a strong will. :)
     
  11. godsbelovedson93

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    Cool man appreciate the motivation , you are right about the earning thing. Hopefully when I reach 90 days I can look back like man I have so many friends now lol
     
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  12. godsbelovedson93

    godsbelovedson93 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man i appreciate that
     
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  13. Gargantua-Pantagruel

    Gargantua-Pantagruel New Fapstronaut

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    ¡Ánimo y fuerza!
    Ni sé como te deseo esto cuando yo ni las tengo, pero algo dentro de mí me impulsa a decirlo, ¡Quiero la redención támbien!
     
  14. godsbelovedson93

    godsbelovedson93 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for your motivation king but no espanol lol
     
  15. nef

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    you want some empowering songs there you go my friend
    I always bounce of and start headbanging, it always fills me with energy,power and feeling of aliveness .





    https://youtu.be/z8ZqFlw6hYg
     
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  16. godsbelovedson93

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    My man I’m going to bump these today ! I like ya style
     
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  17. Zephon

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    @nef can be better ;) But depends on the taste, but here 3 bands with 3 different metal-style:





     
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  18. nef

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    How the hell i miss that ?
     
  19. You may now know that you are not the only one experiencing this type of miseries. What I want you to do is to keep on looking and working for a better life.
     
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  20. I go thru this catharsis for almost a month. I relive all the bad feelings I csused to a person I love in a relationship which has ended. I go tru mainly these:
    - sadness ive hurt her
    - feelings of total lonelyness
    - general emotional pain

    Its almost morning and no sleep for me. I feel the most lonely and abandoned person in a world. Im also in a fear. Cryed rivers...

    All this I feel because I caused it to her. Thanks god this energy returned to me, and she is free and does not suffer. Im happy for that.

    Thru pain and suffering we grow and learn, hang in there my fella, you are not alone.
     

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