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"After challenges and rewarding yourself?"

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by CanadianDream, Nov 5, 2018.

  1. Nov 5, 2018 #1
    CanadianDream

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    Okay hear me out, many of us are doing 30,60,90 day challenges, no nut November etc. But what happens when you hit the mark? Do you reward yourself with a fap or is the end goal to stop it entirely and start a whole new goal? I ask because it's tempting, I'm 16/60. I don't want to run back to porn but a little fap, maybe.
     
    CanadianDream, Nov 5, 2018
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  2. Nov 6, 2018 #2
    Mike28

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    what about other rewards? e.g. i like working out, so if i hit my goal i reward myself by buying a new sports shirt. find what motivates you.

    i would not masturbate as a reward because i might have a hard time getting back on track again.
     
    Mike28, Nov 6, 2018
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  3. Nov 6, 2018 #3
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    I want to stop entirely.

    But each person certainly can decide on their own what abstinence means to them.

    For me it has to be zero P and M. I go into “crazy mode” way too easily and what starts out as “only once” turns into a binge.

    I want to O only with a real person.
     
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  4. Nov 7, 2018 #4
    CanadianDream

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    Mind you this is my first "NoFap" challenge and I dove into hard mode straight away. That's how serious I want p gone from my life. Maybe the O part too because solo they....don't feel that good anymore.
    I'd like to O with a real person but I've been alone so long that ship is sailing faster and faster each day. Thanks folks you've given me much to think about!
     
    CanadianDream, Nov 7, 2018
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