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Well I have been struggling with pornography and masturbation since I was just a kid. I need help.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by i need somebody help, Nov 8, 2018.

  1. i need somebody help

    i need somebody help New Fapstronaut

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    The reason why I can't stand pornography anymore is that this thing has been driving my life crazy for a very long time. It has the power to let me down and makes me feel unclean.
    You know, I do believe in God, and my desire is to live a pure life and have a blessed marriage one day.
    Finally, I got to find hope, and I need your help. #ineedsomebodyhelp
     
  2. Dmodee

    Dmodee Fapstronaut

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    I too need hope, I too wish to have purity. I don’t know how to help you, but letting you know, you are not alone in these feelings. The Bible says blessed are the poor in spirit, but my nature says to me to flee this feeling. May The Lord be with us both I plead
     
  3. Sefz33

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    Welcome. You are definitely in the right place. There is plenty of help here if you just reach out. Keep strong with God, its definitely helping me. God Bless.
     
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  4. Welcome to the community. Read, learn and start making your plan. There is a lot of experience here and people willing to help.
    Never be afraid to ask questions. You are not alone.
     
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  5. Welcome!
    You came to the right place to find support and motivation. The reboot process is not an easy one but it is doable. You will need to stay focused on your goals. Stay happy stay alert! :)
     
  6. snowwolf0111

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    Welcome ! this is the place where we all help eachother to get over this. you will be motivated to get over this terrible addiction we all have. God bless you !
     
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  7. Fallensoldier1

    Fallensoldier1 Fapstronaut

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    Welcome! I too feel the same way as you. It’s a horrible addiction that robs us of so much. But also so hard to quit. I keep wanting to believe the lord will bring me through it, but I would be lieing if I said I didn’t have doubts.
     
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  8. Welcome to NoFap @i need somebody help
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    is a big step if you can understand what is triggering your urges, because this will allow you to be awake and kill those urges as soon as they appear.

    I recommend you to create your own "Emergency Toolbox" with readings that can be handy to read when you start feeling urges to screw up.
    I can share this post with you with my own Emergency Toolbox, it helped me a lot during the first few months, i had them in my cell and read them every time I started falling down:

    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...y-first-320-days-of-reboot.62938/#post-473978

    I wrote some tips in this post that perhaps will help you too:

    http://NoFap.com/forum/index.php?threads/tips-that-helped-me-to-start-my-reboot.46617/#post-330318
    You can watch some interesting videos which are also very helpful in this post:
    http://nofap.com/forum/index.php?th...t-help-me-a-lot-during-my-reboot.39774/page-2

    I also suggest you to read "Breaking the Cycle" by George Collins, it is a must-read if you are serious about getting rid of this addiction.
    To get more focus and feel happier with life I recommend you to start doing meditation.. I have been using an App called Headspace for the last two months which is great if you have never meditated before. The first 10 sessions are free if you want to give a try. I used to feel a bit depressed or feeling without energy to start new projects in my life, and meditation has helped me a lot with this.

    Last but not least, I would strongly recommend you to take the NoFap Academy course if you can afford it. The course is great but the best value are the weekly video calls with @alexander (the creator of NoFap and NoFap Academy) and Mark Queppet, where you can chat with them in real life and listen to other guys's stories and problems too.

    I hope that all this helps you to fight this shitty addiction.
    Let's keep on fighting

    Fercho
     

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