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Advice: MO Fetish

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by JayMack, Nov 15, 2018.

  1. JayMack

    JayMack Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone,

    Back when I was in high school, my gf ended up cheating on me with a good friend of mine. My porn use was regular but not crazy back then, and I absolutely was not interested in the cuck fetish... although after that happened, it started growing on me more and more. There’s absolutely no doubt that was what caused that fetish, but it is a little different because it wasn’t porn induced.

    Will rebooting from PMO help get rid of this fetish? Would value any input.
     
  2. I don't really have an answer (I'm looking for advice as well) though I can say for sure that PMO will make it worse.
    My situation is similar. I will refrain from sharing details, but I had an experience at 30 which turned me on so much I couldn't think straight and fantasised about it for years to come. I don't think that I had any exposure to cuckold porn before this, or if I did, it didn't do much for me. But this gf dumped me and as I nursed my broken heart and tried to cope with the arousal, I started to do internet searches for "cheating girlfriend" etc. and got really, really into the genre. It took years for it all to sink in, but I see that getting cucked actually fit into a pattern that goes all the way back to my earliest relationships.

    So, for me as well, the porn, masturbation and fantasy all probably made it worse, but it was there before I discovered the porn.

    Good luck and I hope that you will share your success and any tips that you find work for you!
     
  3. He might be an avid Shakespeare reader.
     
  4. If it was there before porn use I don't know if it will get rid of it. But you would still benefit and likely this problem would lessen or at least be less of a focal point.
     
  5. outlander.9

    outlander.9 Fapstronaut

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    NoFap will definitely not hurt the issue, but if it persists maybe you ought to consider some kind of sexual therapist or something to try to work through the issue. It's a pretty shitty problem to have and maybe they will help you get rid of it.
     

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