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Masturbating with a partner?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Arctichowler, Jan 25, 2015.

  1. Jan 25, 2015 #1
    Arctichowler

    Arctichowler Guest

    So i was wondering whether masturbating with a partner would count as a relapse? technically youre with someone else sharing the sexual experience, but then again you are masturbating yourself. Any opinions? would it count as a relapse?
     
    Arctichowler, Jan 25, 2015
    Arctichowler, Jan 25, 2015
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  2. Jan 25, 2015 #2
    Personal Freedom

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    It qualifies as MO, so if you're abstaining from PMO,then it isn't a relapse. Just make sure you aren't using it as a substitute, or an excuse. Make sure it's you choosing it, and not your urges.
     
    Personal Freedom, Jan 25, 2015
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  3. Jan 25, 2015 #3
    mustynasty

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    I notice a lot of threads that are people asking for the rules to be set for themselves by others. If you think it's a failure then it's a failure, otherwise it's not.

    Obviously it's literally masturbation and orgasm but that doesn't mean it's damaging. Personal Freedom sums it up nicely though, if you find yourself aroused by the idea of fapping to a partner is arousing because you associate fapping with porn, then it's probably not doing you any favours in terms of NoFap. Try to really get a handle on your motivations.
     
    mustynasty, Jan 25, 2015
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