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Feel so guilty, need comfort !

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by I'll never be the same, Jan 23, 2015.

  1. I'll never be the same

    I'll never be the same Fapstronaut

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    I feel so guilty like I hate myself, like I don't worth anything, just need some motivation again, please help me guys !
     
  2. paspas

    paspas Fapstronaut

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    I'll repost my reply from an identical thread an add you are choosing to feel this way. If you don't want to feel guilty, choose to feel something else:

    Failing is necessary. You will fail. Not always, but sometimes. It is always necessary. Why? You will learn from it. What if you fail again? You will fail as many times as it is necessary for you to learn.

    Do not give up. Change your approach. It's more than just posting on NoFap, downloading K9 and getting an accountability partner, it's about changing your life. Your life (as well as mine and many others here) has revolved around porn. Now is the time to get not 1 new hobby, maybe 3 new hobbies, as many hobbies as it takes. A hobby that keeps you in shape, a hobby that you enjoy and a hobby that'll make you money. Throw in some meditation, yoga/stretching, reading/learning and healthy eating. Make a mission statement. How do you make your life better through and through. Execute.

    Know one thing. You have a choice. Accept the decisions you make, right or wrong. You decided to watch porn, you must accept this and not anguish over it. It'll make you stronger.

    These are some of my favorite articles across the web:
    A Roadmap to Manhood in the 21st Century
    Read Part 2, it helps to be a Zelda fan but the message is great either way:The Message of Majoras Mask
    Must Read: Holy Grail of NoFap
     
  3. Some Randomer

    Some Randomer Fapstronaut

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    You don't need comfort.
    Comfort is what got you here.
    Comfort kills the mind.
     
  4. enoughnow

    enoughnow Fapstronaut

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    I find that it serves no purpose to feel guilty. In fact I reckon that porn is specifically designed to promote feelings of guilt/inadequacy/shame etc. so that you end up looking at more. Like all of us, you are on a journey and sometimes there will be slip-ups.
     

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