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Can't seep without masturbation

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by subjectset306, Nov 29, 2018.

  1. subjectset306

    subjectset306 Fapstronaut

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    I'm 19 and a virgin. I normally have a habit of sleeping on my stomach with my penis erect and foreskin pulled down. Whenever I sleep, I think of my crush and fall a sleep quickly. But from last week I've not been getting an erection when I go to bed which causes insomnia. So I have to force myself to get erect by thinking of something sexy and the friction caused while getting erect makes me orgasm. Sometimes I even grab my phone and watch porn to quickly orgasm and fall asleep.
    Can someone please help me?
     
  2. IWantToChange:')

    IWantToChange:') Fapstronaut

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    Stop masturbating and stop looking at sexual images and/or videos.

    You normally sleep without having to have any sexual thoughs and feelings (I mean like, it should be like that all the time). That's how it's supposed to be.

    You can do this.!
     
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  3. 4:44am

    4:44am Fapstronaut

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    Do you want to quit porn, get some sleep or just get your erections back?
     
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  4. IGY

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    I have never heard of this before! Why do you need to be sexually aroused to go to sleep and why do you pull your foreskin down? Furthermore, if your penis is soft at bedtime, this does not cause insomnia - I can tell you that as a fact.
    It sounds to me as if you are thrusting your penis into the mattress. This is called prone masturbation. My advice is to stop and never repeat this form of masturbation. It is traumatising to your penis and, over time, causes desensitisation. Looking at porn to induce an orgasm on the pretext of going to sleep is your own brain just fooling you. :oops: When you use porn, masturbate and cum your brain releases a neurotransmitter called dopamine. You need to train your brain not to expect that. This is what the NoFap challenge is all about, so you are not dependent on porn and masturbation. Go for it buddy!
     
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  5. subjectset306

    subjectset306 Fapstronaut

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    The main reason is I want to sleep, because "an idol mind is a devil's workshop". I can control myself during the day by keeping myself busy, but a night I want to sleep as fast as possible so that I don't have to masturbate.
     
  6. subjectset306

    subjectset306 Fapstronaut

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    Normally during the day I don't watch sexual images or videos. But at night I'm forced to masturbate in order to get sleep. But still, tonight I'll try not to have sexual thoughts. Thanks for the reply:).
     
  7. subjectset306

    subjectset306 Fapstronaut

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    I find it difficult to sleep on my back, but still I'll try to sleep sideways. Thanks for the reply:).
     
  8. IGY

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    Yeah, I sleep on my side. Can I ask again, why you pull your foreskin down? I've never heard of this as a pre-sleep thing.
     
  9. subjectset306

    subjectset306 Fapstronaut

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    I involuntary pull it down by rubbing it against the mattress :emoji_sweat_smile:
     
  10. ultrafabber

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    Ejaculation is a very powerful sedative so it's not surprising it's used as stress relief or sleep aid. The problem is that's not what ejaculation is for and using it as such disrupts your body's natural balance.
     
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